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Hi, im kimberly. I love talking to people and helping others as much as i can. I want to be able to help anyone that needs help with pretty much anything! So if you need help or have questions about anything, please dont hesitate to ask me! :)
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Last Update: January 20, 2010
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Basically every girl in my grade including my best friends have had sex they also have boyfriends. I am really independent and mature for my age and dont feel the need for a boyfriend whatsoever. However I do want one as of right now but I am really picky. I'm not going to date someone who I dont even like but I do realize that the perfect guy isnt going to fall into my lap. But anyway I do sort of feel like the odd one out since im a virgin compared to everyone else. My bestfriends always have their boyfriends and have sex. On one hand I am perfectly fine with waiting for the right one but on the other hand I do feel left out. I dont know...any advice or personal experience is greatly apprpeciated :) (link)
You said that you are really picky. I personally think that is a great thing! cause i'm the same way. all my friends would have boyfriends and just date boys just so they could "fit in" And just like you, for my age i was a lot more mature and didn't see a point to this. You just don't want to settle for anyone just to say you have a boyfriend.

You just have to realize that you are not alone whatsoever. yes, in your group you might feel a little out of the loop but your time will come when you find the right guy. your only 16 years old you have your whole life in front of you. and believe me, you will meet sooo many people in the next few years. In the meantime, just have fun and don't get down on not having a boyfriend. you sound like you have a great head on your shoulders and that is something great to have at your age!! hope this helped :)


I've been trying to get pregnant for the past two weeks. I'm really bloated, really moody, and I also eat and drink a lot. Although I took a pregnancy test a couple days ago and it came up negative.....Could I have taken the test to early? (link)
you may have taken it too early. usually most pregnancy test are to be used after your first missed period. so i'd wait till then and then take another test




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