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Hey guys!,

I'm 16 years old and I live in Ontario Canada. I love hanging out with my really good friends. I have to say I'm pretty good at giving advice. So ask away:) and I'll do my best to help you.

Lots of love,

Lovely Lisa

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Hi, my friend on MSN is talking about commitinf suicide. I really want to help him, but I can only talk to him on MSN. How do I convince to stay alive?

Hey hun,
This is a very tough thing to deal with. but if you wanna help your friend you have to make him want to live. remind him of the things that make him happy. people that care about him and the people that want him to be here. Dont call him stupid, dont say that he is stupid to want to kill himself. You probably dont know what kind of life he has. and you probably dont know the full extent of why he doesn't want to live anymore. DONT JUDGE. you could tell him, that life is hard, and by killing yourself you would be taking the easy way out. LIFE IS HARD! thats what makes it life. you just have to stick with things. and try to make it through allt he hard things in life. you cant give up. everyone goes through hard things believe me. and he may thing there is no way out but there is he just has to deal with his problems and try to sort through them.. its going to be hard..but he shouldn't kill himself..im sure someone will miss him and wish he was still alive.

I hope i helped.. lots of love!

Lovely lisa

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Okay maybe i'm just over-reacting, but, me and my boyfriend have just recently become sexually active, and we had sex the first time without a condom, i know i know bad decisio, but it wasn't hardcore sex.. it was a put it in take it out kind of thing. Like an experiment. But non-the-less, it wasn't protected. But we've had sex about 3 or 4 times since then, in the last 3 months. I had my period after the first time we had sex, and I know for a fact none of the other condoms have broke. But, for some reason, I haven't had my period in over a month, going on two! I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said i wasn't pregnant, but i just cant' shake this feeling that I am!! Why haven't I had my period!? I know this is long, but I really need advice. Please help!

hey hun!..

well first of all...how old are you and when did you start your period. because when you first start it, it can be irregular for some time..you can skip months between periods..its perfectly normal. but if you are usually regular i think you should go to the doctors and let them do a pregnancy test just to be sure. with some pregnancy tests especially done by the doctor..they can detect a pregnacy within first week of implantion..so i would go to the doctor just to make sure.. but i dont htink you have anything to worry about. you probably just missed a few periods. but i dont mean to get all motherly on your ass LOL but i think you should go on the pill or use another birth control method other than a condom just to be safe...becase then you wont have to worry as much about these kind of things. i really hope i helped..my email is curvylady88@hotmail.com if you want to ask me anymore questions. just so you know im 16/f/canada...it might help you to relate to me more.

much love
Lisa xxx

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