Hello! I'm Sammy, I'm 18 and live in the Scottish Highlands. I haven't been on here in 2 years, but I'm now back!
I've finished school and currently working at a co-op convenience store. I'm dyslexic, bisexual and unsure what to do with my life currently.
I love helping out my friends and thought doing something like this would be a great, to just help out more people!
I hope my advice helps y'all!
I may be young, but that just means it's fresh advice. (;
I've gone through basically all the classic teenage problems and more, so hopefully my experiences can help you out.
Feel free to ask me anything:
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Leaving school
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and general day to day stuff.
- Though, of course I will attempt all that is asked. (:
E-mail: samieeeey@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Highlands, Scotland
Occupation: Co-op worker
Age: 18
Member Since: January 11, 2012
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i have been confused about what i should be, i am a female that is more comfortable dressing in male clothes, i act more masculine then i do feminine however i do have certain female traits that keeping coming out (maternal - from when i was a step mum). i have been reading up and considering going through with a sex change operation. the only thing that is holding me back is i want kids and want to be able to conceive naturally. (link)
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There's not alot I can say to help you here as it's all down to what makes you feel comfortable and only you know that.
Since you're wanting kids yourself and naturally, you could wait until after you've had kids to have the sex change. And in the mean time just continue doing what you can to be your true self.
I wish I could be of more help and really hope all goes well for you.
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I'm a 17-year-old guy who's been with the same girl(now 18) for a couple years. One day I walked in on her attempting suicide, and we got help. She was away for a few weeks at a mental health hospital for her depression, and while she was there, what I had seen that day was eating away at me. As a way of coping, I starting smoking pot.
Then, when she got out, she found out what I had been doing and told me I had to stop because it was "unhealthy", and she has always been 100% anti-drug.
This Wednesday she left to spend a week with her friend who lives in another state, and her friend's boyfriend smokes a lot of pot. She hasn't been answering any of my calls, or texting me back at all.
Tonight, when I called her to talk to her, she answered, stoned out of her mind and couldn't keep a thought for more than two seconds(yes, I counted), which tells me she smoked a LOT of weed. This is after for "health" reasons she made me quit, and now she goes behind my back and spends a week out of state with two people I've never met, and has probably been smoking all week.
What should I do? How should I confront her?
Thanks,
Anonymous (link)
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If I were you I wouldn't have a massive go at her. Keep calm about it all, as you yourself have done it.
Tell her how you feel about the situation, that it hurt and that it's hypocritical of her.
I reckon it'd be good to try come to the conclusion that you've both done it and it doesn't matter so much if either of you do it again, maybe?
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