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I am a 17 year old senior living in Chicago. When I go off to college i plan on majoring in psychology. This is because i am always told that i give great advice. I am a determined and willing person. I answer any and every question with care and i always give my true opinion. I put myself in that persons situation and answer the question with what ever i would do. I am trustworthy and i never give up.
Gender: Female
Location: Chicago
Occupation: student
Age: 17
Member Since: January 4, 2009
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i've never touched myself and im grossed out by the vagina and i don't really know how to masturbate so i don't wanna mess anything up down there by trying....i kinda want my boyfriend to finger me but i don't know if it will hurt or anything...ive tried clitoris stimulation when i was dry humping my boyfriend i guess it stimulated it? is that normal? and my other question is, is being grossed out by my own vagina normal?

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well thinking that your vagina is gross is kind of not normal but yet it is. You might not have gotten in touch with your sexual side yet. When getting fingered by your boyfriend, it should not hurt if he uses only 1 and does not just force it in you but it also depends on your body. If you try it and it does not feel right then tell him to stop. Don't be ashamed because alot of woman don't feel comfortable touching themselves. If you use tampons then you shouldn't really feel that uncomfortable.


Hello, I missed my period for last month and I don't know why. I have a steady boyfriend but we haven't had sex, he has fingered me though, only once this month,and that was after I was already late. But when we do those things I always go first and then I do him second, with my pants on and wash my hands.
I'm responsible for my actions and the dangers. I just don't understand, it does not seem possible, it seems more possible that I got pregnant from a toilet seat than my own boyfriend.
I had messed up my month of birth control, so I only took like a weeks worth. Could that have done something to my cycle? I am also stressed with school.
Is there any other reasons I could have missed my period? (link)
well stress is a major part and depending on your age your period is going to be irregular for a while but just relax and it will come in time but also by you being late and your boyfriend fingering you it is possible that you have pushed your period back a little trust me i know from experience lol


my boyfriend used to finger me for how many times, ang im wondering if im still virgin? am i? (link)
yes you are still a virgin because your hymen is not broken and a penis has not entered your body. Until then you are a virgin.


ive been trying to get a little further with my boryfriend. we have been going out for a while and i dont mean to sound sexual but well to bad. like i want to give him a hj thats all i ever done before but i want to give him a bj too, so say im at the point where hes all "ready" lol what do i do now?? how would i go about to performing either bj or hj? (link)
well start kissing him and take control while kissing him feel for his manhood. It will probably suprise him a bit. Once you get past the kissing point then start off with a little hand action and then go into the bj




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