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my life is average i guess.
short story on my life- i live with my dad. my mom got a new job and moved across the world. but my parents are still together. just dont live together. i have a boyfriend. been dating for almost 7 months. i'm in love with him. we had a rocky start (many fights) but we worked it out and things are better now. I don't have a lot of friends. 1 best friend and a few other friends. I play a sport. My grades are good. (mostly A's and B's) I'm interested in a bunch of things varying from photography, art, listening to music, video production, cooking, writing etc.
so basically. my life is average. its ok. except... i find myself sad a lot. there are times when i just cry for no reason. If i'm home alone, i'll start crying for a little bit. and then i'm ok. if i'm out hanging with friends, they will be laughing and having a good time and sometimes i find myself to be distant and space out feeling a little sad.
what is wrong with me? i dont think its depression because i dont have thoughts of suicide or self harm. i dont think i HATE myself.. i just get sad sometimes. I'm not really sure why.
oh and this isn't really a thing i can talk to with someone. My dad wouldn't be any help, trust me. my boyfriend would just make things more confusing and difficult (its happened before. he thought i was sad because of our relationship and we were close to breaking up) my best friend doesn't really help either (ive gone to her for help before and majority of the time she makes absolutely no difference)
i just don't know why i'm sad. its not like my life is a giant disappointment..i just. feel sad. gah.
any advice? (link)
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Firstly, nothing is WRONG with you, really. it's okay to develop these feelings sometimes, even if you're not sure why.
Secondly, you don not have to be suicidal to be depressed, and it certainly sounds like you're suffering from a case of depression. It's a big stereotype that all people cut themselves, ro try and overdose if they are depressed, but really only a certain percentage of depressed people do. I'd recommend talking to your doctor about this, and if you feel like they aren't helping you because doctors can be very useless, phone a hotline, like samaritans, or something similar. you don't have to be suicidal or anything to phone these hotlines. Really, just talk to them, and maybe they can give you better advice.
xxx
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im really attacted to my good pal aaron...he makes e feel special when he says hi....i cum n my pants everytime he high fives me in the hallways and i dream about him rding unicornsbutt naked every night...how should i tell him how i truely feel (link)
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right... er, just wait for the right time, stay close friends till then.... and if he responds positively, have fun riding himunicornbutt naked every night.
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I really do not want anyone to tell me that life is great, you can live more, don't do it, or any of that crap. I simply want to die. Period. And quick, painless, easy, cheap death. Please do not try to help me. I really want to go. That way I truly will be at peace, and I will not have to go on anymore. PLease PLEASE PLEASE don't tell me not to. I have my mind made up. If you do try to talk me out of it, i am scared that i will be futherly depressed knowing that i could not and would not follow your healing advice... I simply want a way out, and that's it. Please help me (link)
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yea, as much as i wanna link u to a website, i dont wanna get banned. but thing is, you obviously can't wanna kill yourself, because you are on here, asking for attention. if you are hoping to get responses like 'im here for u 2!', then it won't help you. therapists are shit. and people here only answer your question, not knowing your life situtations. personally i knwo that being depressed, makes doing the basic human fuctions a huge pain. i couldn't even talk to people at all for like 3 months. im still looking, but i'll try and find a suicide/ depressed forum so you can actually talk to human people, not stupid guidance counsellors. and as for suicide methods, do reasearch. since many are EXETREMELY painful and don't work in the end, so you don't wanna put your self through that. check mortality rates. happy dying! or not... you know. if you change your mind..
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So my boyfriend and I had sex for our first time 2 and a half weeks ago and then we did again a week later. All fully protected and safe, he didn't cum or anything. I just still am paranoid. My 28th day was yesterday and i usually start between 29-32 days, I'm on time usually and I am just paranoid. I want my period to come but I try not to think about it. I've had like alot of wetness in my underwear, well not alot but a good amount and I just wondered if that was normal. Is my period coming? (link)
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i know its easy to be worried, what with all the teen pregnancy's but seriously. 1) he didn't cum. 2) you were fully proctected. 3) you are young, your'e period should come within a few days. it it didn't come to tady, you shouldn't panic. it will probably come tommorrow. you have to understand that you can't tell purley by a period not being exactly on time. it doesn't work like that. just calm down, if you did everything u said you did, you should be just fine. and you don't want ot rush your period, its a natural thing not a thing you can control, as much as you would like to.
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Okay, so I'm 16 years old and just got into my first serious relationship. Yay! :) Happy days.
Anyways....when my boyfriend and I make out, I can feel "that area" getting kind of wet. Today when I got home I went into the bathroom to check and there was this whitish clear liquid in my underwear and around my vagina. Is this cum? And is this a result of being aroused? I didn't think you cum-ed until having sex at an orgasm? Because we haven't really gotten hot & heavy or anything like that yet.
Is there such a thing as just getting wet easily? Cause I mean I really haven't felt that urge to just keep pushing further and further, you know? Like that sexual desire. Yet I noticed its kind of a good amount of this liquid stuff because I can feel it there after we've made out and it can be sorta uncomfortable.
Oh, and is that "fireworks" thing during a kiss real? Because I've never really had that firework moment during a kiss. I mean I enjoy it a lot, but I've never felt that fireworks thing with anyone I have kissed.
If anyone could help explain this, I'd appreciate it!
Thank you! (link)
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yeah, it totally normal, and a good sign! but the fireworks thing..well, unles you kiss on the fourth of july, when there are actual fireworks, you'll be waiting for a VERY long time. yeah that's movie crap. but amazing kisses aren't you just have to be more open minded. and the fact that your'e getting wet when you kiss him, seems like you've got that already! :)
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can you get pregnant by giving a guy a blow job? (link)
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1. did u mean to send this to me?
2. no you can't. don't worry =]
jamz
but u can get an STD
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I'm a worthless human being. I've been a worthless human being for a pretty long time, but I've just now come to accept it.
I've decided I want to die. However, I'm too much of a coward to go through with it. Perhaps it's the thought of pain, maybe it's the risk of failing at failing.
In any case, whatever some (Relatively) painless and (Relatively) reliable suicide methods, preferabley accessable to the common 20-something who doesn't work in a hospital? (link)
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do you mind telling me why you wanna kill yourself? i no it's dumbbut i've wanted to kill myself for over 2 years now. but like you, i'm a coward. tell me ALL the reasons, no matter how stupid and whiny it all comes out. i swear, i'll listen. it's not stupid and it really helps. i still wanna kill myself, each and every day and if i was given a choice to live a eally happy life or kill myself painlessly, i'd always choose to kill myself. but tell me why you want to. i've survived 2 years. well actually more but i got through. just tell me. will understand, i swear!!
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Okayy so i was thinking about it, and first of all, this isn't euthanasia. secodn of all, if you are still alive and want advice, then just look online. but be careful to check the mortality rates, otherwise you'd be in too much pain, you wouldnt die, and you'd be put on suicide watch which is horrible. i hear laughing gas can kill you easily if dealt with wrongly, and you can get that off the internet. just look it up.
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