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well im 12 and i want to have sex i think im ready.. im dating a 19 year old guy and i love him sooo much.. we have done everything except sex and i really think im ready.. but when i turn 13 which is in 2 months im going to a ginocologist and i no they can tell if youve had sex.. but what would i tell my mom?? because she already made me an appointment for June 12th 2005 err i dont know what to do i rate wicked high (link)
whoah wait your dating a 19 year old.. wow thats against the law =[ soo i wouldnt because you can get you in trouble and him if you get caught and there is a chance even with a condom or birth control that you can get pregnant.. so i wouldnt risk it!! xOx jiLl


Hey...im a 14 year old bisexual and i want to have intercourse with the same sex...and i also want to tell my parents but i dont know how they will act... :( im kinda worried..

Signed..14 year old bi guy (link)
if your parents really love you they wont get mad or anything if you tell them!! if my kid told me he was bisexual i wouldnt care theres nothing wrong with it.. and find someone that is busexual and if you really like him go for it.. xOx jiLl


i know it's still possible to get pregnant when you have your period, but say someone has sex during her period, preferably near the END (and still wears a condom) will that lessen her chance of conceiving? or is there a certain day where you are highly likely to get pregnant? (link)
that is the only time you cant get pregnant is when you have your period. i dont know if there is a day but you cant get pregnant if you have your period


im in my upper 30 so it is not like im a teen my boyfriend that i live with is not giving me what i need (passion) tried everything well that is except cheating on him to get what i need my problem is if i get caught he will leave me or throw me out i want to have all the passion but i dont wanna get thrown out for it what should i do i have not had it for 4 yrs (link)
well if all you want is ((passion)) then leave him but if you truley love him you want just want to be with him for passion and sex. tell him how you feel.. and tell him what he does wrong or if you dont feel anything when you have sex like no love or anything leave him becuase then you are being with someone you dont actually love xOx jiLl


The problem lies in these lines...

"Aria, Optima
Anorexia, Bulimia"

I have an ex who is bi-polar, suicidal and anorexic. I've been waiting for her to come out of the hospital for months. Should I move on? (link)
well you could maybe move on to another girl for now but dont just wait for her because you are hurting you too!! i see she needs alot of help soo it could be probably up to a year in the hospital hope i helped xOx jiLl


Is masterbation a sin? Some people think it is, and some people think it's not. Some people think it is-- only under cirtain circumstances. Like if it's for lust, then yes it is, but if it's not for lust then it isn't..> Is it? Or isn't it? (link)
well catholics say it is.. but im not catholic so i dont think it is.. and that hole part bout lust u have.. why else would people masterbate if its not for lust?? thats my point.. soo i say no its not xOx jiLl


if you have oral sex, or your boyfriend/girlfriend has done anything sexual to you besides sex, is it a sin? (link)
well it all depends what religion you are.. i dont believe its a sin unless you have sex or something at a to young of age or when your not ready but i dont believe that its a sin before marrage then no one would go to heaven!!! xOx jiLl


ok ive done a hand job before but my friend keeps askin when is he gettin his and i keep tell him i dont kno and like i dont wanna come off as a ho doing that to someone im not with..is that hoeish ? i do have feelings for him though (link)
well you would be a hoe if like you do it all the time.. you should just me like im only doing this because i like you more then a friends i wouldnt do this for just anyone xOx jiLl




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