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what is the factor that prevent illegal sex (link)
It's the law because they're trying to prevent young girls becoming pregnant or getting any STDs.


ok, i'm 19f. i dated this guy [19m] on and off since i was 15, mostly on. we were both virgins when we started dating and still are. he was my 1st for everything else [except kissing] and i was his. we've been broken up since march, but everytime we see each other, which isnt too often because we still have problems, mainly with him always being with this other girl who he claims not to like and says he still wants and loves me, yet shes always saying she loves him and stuff [theyve never even dated], anyway whenever we're actually in each others presense, we're fine with each other and usually fool around.

so fast forward to now. im in college 3 hours from home. two weeks ago i met this guy at a bar and have seen him everyday since. he's so sweet, caters to me in every way he can, and i enjoy spending time with him. he wants to date me, but i dont want to rush into something serious, so we're still "talking". he's been with 17 girls! which he said is a thing of the past and now he wants a relationship, and feels bad because i usually pick at him for having such a big number ha. but he knows im a virgin and is fine with the fact that i told him i wont be giving it up to him any time soon.

the problem is, i've always said i'd regret it if i lost it to anyone but my ex. we have almost 4 years of history together, we were each others first loves. he'd be so disappointed if he knew i gave it up to someone else, and i think i would be too. he was a big part of my life, and i still want to lose it to him. everytime we're together, it almost happens, and last weekend when i saw him, it really almost did, but didn't. i just dont know what to do now. if i lose it to my ex and my new guy finds out, im afraid he'll be crushed and leave me, which i dont want because im really starting to like him a lotttt and could see myself officially dating him pretty soon. on the other hand, my ex doesnt know about my new guy. and im afraid if i lose it to him and he finds out ive been talking to this other guy all along, he'll be pissed. but im more concerned about the latter. what to do here? by the way, im not trying to rush anything. i am 19, and it's bound to happen sooner or later. (link)
okay, in my opinion you basically answered your own question, i'm referring to "he WAS a big part of my life". Your ex is exactly that, your EX, so i don't think you should be specifically holding out for him as there is a reason you broke up in the first place. Also, ths other guy sounds so nice, the fact that he's willing to hold on until you're ready, shows that he does like you and guys that sweet i'm afraid to say, aren't that common. Now, i'm just going to presume here but you and your ex may fool around every so often but you're not going to get back together, where as there is a very good chance you and the other guy are going to get together, and you sound very compatible so i say give it a go. =] long answer, i know but i had to explain myself. the other guy! x


do teens do it will i be able to stop is this wrong (link)
yes teens do it as it is perfectly natural. it's called experamenting. there is no need feel like you have to stop, but if you want to just concentrate on something that will occupy your mind and the urges will fade.


i have fantasies of my tennis coach who is about 35.
i'm only 15.
but i have no idea how to not think about it.
i mean hes attractive, but is there anything i can do to stop thinking about him in a sex related way. (link)
Well, me and my friend have fantasies about an English teacher in our school =P

There's nothing wrong with having a sexual attraction to somebody, what matters is whether you act on that attraction or not.

In this case, I suggest that you keep it as a fun fantasy ;) lol

Don't worry, EVERYBODY has this

xxx

15/f


Hi I'm 15/f,
A few days ago I shaved my vagina, the pubic hair and now it's extremely itchy what can i do????
Thanks. (link)
you are ment to moisurise it daily.

hope it helps =]

xxx




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