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I am very open minded person. No questions is a dumb question. Whatever you feel like asking just ask and I'll help you to the best of my abilities. I am very honest but also kind so dont take anything I say to heart. I'll just give you my best possible solution to your problems. I may be a little young but I am wise for my age. So no matter how old or young you are just ask!!!!
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K, so I've been going out with my boyfriend since 1-31-05, and lately we've kind of been like, you know, "touching". At first I was kind of like, well I dunno about this, and feeling indecisive about whether we should even be doing it, but kind of wanting to at the same time. (I'm 14, he's 15) Well now my problem is that when he touches me it feels *kind of* good at first then it just hurts. What are we doing wrong? (link)
He doesn't know what he's doing. Tell him to ease up. If he's hurting you, you should let him know what feels good and what doesn't.


me and my boyfriend had sex and we didnt use rubber and im only 14 he got me pregnet what do i tell my parents? (link)
Tell them the truth sweetie. You have to there is no way around that. Your parents may be mad but they can help you figure out what your going to do.


hi im 15 and my boyfriends 16. although many adults say that us teens dont know what love is teens know when their in love. i just want peoples opinions (teens and adults) on if teens know what love is and also me and my boyfriend are really in love and its NOT lust. we know it. anyways we decided we were going to have sex (no my boyfriends not like that hes never pushed me into sex ever) but were not having sex for the fun of it we really do love eachother. please give us ur thoughts and please dont be mean thanx!~Kelley (link)
Hey P.O. To answer your question on do teens know what love really is, I feel that there are a select few who really do. What you may want and love at this moment may not be what you want in love six months, a year, or even ten years from now. But if you feel that you "love" this guy, I would advice you to wait until you both are alittle older before involoving sex. Sex is a BIG DEAL. To give yourself is a major step in any relationship and by you still being young you might regret giving yourself to him on down the line. I know its easier said than done, but wait. There is more to love and loving someone than just having sex. Also you have to look at the situation. I dont know your boyfriend and he's probably a nice guy, but alot of guys pretend to be in love with women just to bed them. Just be careful if you do decide to do it and always protect yourself!!!!!!




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