Gender: Female
Age: 16
MSN: amandainuyasha_22@hotmail.com
Member Since: April 19, 2005
Answers: 2
Last Update: June 18, 2005
Visitors: 618
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i am a 16yr old girl, and i havent been in a relationship recently bc i was raped/abused by my ex. and honestly im afraid of being in a relationship because of the past. i know i shouldnt let that effect anything in the future, because its done and over with... but i cant help to think what happens if someone hurts me again like my ex? and i no not every one on this planet is a sick minded freak like my ex was... but i cant help to wonder. there are numerous guys who like me, including 2 of my ex/bfs, who treated me with so much respect... but there is another guy who does like me, and i guess i like him too... but hes not really my type... hes sort of a dork, and yeahh. i know that doesnt matter, what im getting at is, if i do choose any of these, how do i make sure they wont hurt me like my other ex, and who do i pick?? (link)
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well since two of your ex boyfriends treated with you with a lot of respect maaybe you should go with one of them becase they already know you and stuff an you know them and if one of them tries to do anything like that to you get help or something and dont let it happen again you dont need that stuff in your life i mean your only 16 and i have been raped also and its hard to move on but do what you feel is right to you and the ex bfs seem to respect you so maybe go after one of them good luck with that i hope things go well
~Tarajima
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well, school is over for the summer, and im not that great at keeping in touch with everyone. most of my friends get upset at this, but then again, only 2 of them have tried to keep in contact with me too... i just dont understand why they get so upset when they arent trying either. i understand it is hard to go with out talking to your friends that have been there for you, but i just moved, and im around a different crowd, and i have to go to summer school, and some of my friends think im going to forget about them, and make new friends. i will make new friends, but i wont forget my old. i tried explaining this to them, but they just seem to get mad. what am i supposta do?? (link)
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Well for your old friends you can give them your address and get theirs and maybe becoe pen palls and about your new friends get their phone numbers and you can call them and stuff or if you talk online get their email addresses and talk to them that way because if they are really friends they should also understand that its dificult to keep in contact because you never know what might happen so good luck with that i hope things go well
~Tarajima
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