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im an 18 year old female.
i've never had sex before, and don't plan on it anytime soon because i just haven't found the right guy, the one i love. i was just wondering though. how can people enjoy sex? i hear its a wonderful thing but all i can imagine is me being so worried about getting pregnant that i couldn't even enjoy it. i am currently on birth control (for my period) and have been for about 2 and a half years. i know i am going to make him use a condom, no doubt. i just can't see myself enjoying it though because i will be so worried about getting pregnant. i just wondered how people enjoy it so much, without thinking about getting pregnant the whole time! thanks [: (link)
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It's really good to hear that you are going to use a condom even though you're on birth control. You definitely should not be worrying about getting pregnant while you are having sex! It is an intimate time between you and your partner, and it's really important that you're completely comfortable with him and the situation. Sex is sexy and hot, but it's also gross and awkward. Make sure it's with the right guy! You actually won't be able to have sex if you are worried/nervous because you won't be able to get "wet enough."
Regarding getting pregnant, it is truthfully really hard to get pregnant. You just have to use protection, take your birth control on time, and if the condom breaks- then you take the morning after pill. If you carry out the steps necessary to prevent pregnancy (by using condoms and taking birth control) it is REALLY hard to get pregnant.
Don't let the possibility of getting pregnant ruin the intimate moment between you and your partner.
I hope everything works out!
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whats a handjob? (link)
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A handjob is an act of masturbation, done by one person on another.
Usually, it's a girl who rubs her hands up & down, and side to side a male's penis. Sometimes you will find that it it a boy who is giving a boy a handjob.
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