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hey..im jus ur average 17 year old.
ive been through my share of ups and downs,havnet experienced it all yet, but i'll do my best to awnser any question you have
Location: Southlake, TX
Member Since: February 12, 2005
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can u get stds from masturbation or a disease or something? (link)
uhhhhh...im pretty sure you cant..ya...uhh i realli dont think so.


on saturday i was out in the pub with my older sister, she went to her mates next door for a while and left me wif her mates,which i was fine with. i ended up snogging my sisters mate the thing is i was drunk and so was he.im 16 and hes 24.it was such a huge mistake and regretted it as soon as i ahd done it,he wanted me to go home with him but i refused,he got mad and stormed of home.i cant seem to foget about it. what if he tells her?no one elses saw us so shall i just deny everything.?please i dont know what to do. (link)
what the hell is snogging??ha thats awsome...where are u from??

ok i think you should probably tell your sister..and she should respect you for not going home wit him...and if she doesnt well at least you wont feel bad about lying to her...good luck


i know about that i mean like...i can never seem to get myself into a situation that would have me tickling her or anything like that without me looking stupid and the opportunity being blown, i know she wants to kiss me, but i need an excuse to do it
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ok...like wen yall are at your house, or whatever your doin...just chill n whatch tv...sit next to her...get urselves close...if she seems far away at the time..or kinda like makes it ah-kwerd...then dont try...i mean i think the first kiss with someone you like has to be special..the perfect time will come..even if its not that night..i promise!But if she does seem close..then like say something that would get the thought into her head...or joke around about soemthing...and make sure ur always kinda lookin at her..and when she looks back lean in and go for the kill.Not too fast..not to slowIt's kinda hard to set up a situation...it kinda just has to happen...lol..hope im helping??


theres this girl i like a lot and i know she likes me and tomorrow she is coming over and its not like ive never kissed anyone or anything but i want someone elses opinion...what is the best way to get into a situation where you start kissing someone without just throwing yourself to them (link)
hmm it depends...its always cute to start tickling her, or somethings flirty liek that till you get realli close, and just lean in and make it smooth and natural


Well, my boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time on Tuesday.

I was just wondering if I should, like, shave you-know-where. I've tried shaving that hair before, but it didn't really go over so well... It was still stubbly and I couldn't get rid of that, and it was really just wierd.

I was wondering if the hair would gross him out or something... Would it? (link)
depends on ur guy...i think you should let it grow out, then shave it...i mean every girl has problems wit it..its not the funnest thing in the world to do. But most guys that ive met...prefere it bare down there. You could try waxing...but if the guy gets grossed out, he's obvioulsy not worth your time...cuz if he realli likes you he'll take the good wit the bad...and he'll want the romantic part that comes wit sex, not the just the sex part...hope i helped!


My boyfriend & I have been trying to have a baby for the past 4 months, but I can not get pregnant! We already know his sperm is good because he has 2 kids from a previous relationship. Could having a disease cause someone not to get pregnant? What kind of disease? How do you know if you are in-fertile? Why would I be in-fertile? WHY CAN'T I GET PREGNANT!?!? :0( (link)
Yes deseases can cause u to not be able to get pregnant, go to a gynocologist, they will tell you everything you need to no i promise!


ok, the other night, I stayed the night with my best guy friend. We have been flirting and hugging and things like that with no problem. But then we were laying together and we were doing a little rubbing and touching on eachother and then I started feeling weird like I...or we did something wrong?? I dont know why either....does any one know why that might be? (link)
prolly cuz yall have just been freinds, so moving onto the next steps always a lil awq-werd! But iono exactly the feeling ur talking about...maybe you were jsut horny..tight shit:)
-goodluck wit that


What am I supposed to do with my pubic hair? 14/f, and should I shave or wax or nothing? I don't want it to itch, but be comfortable. (link)
pubic hair is not something to keep there. I'd shave it, all that nair shit dont work too well..but then again shaving means it will come back...and the shitty part is its worse wen it comes back, so you could take the painful way out and do an all out brazilian wax...OUCH..but hey you gotta go through pain...bien a gurl and all!
-have fun with that


alright, well me and my boyfriend like to have fun were both 13..and like the other day i was just like rubbing his 'thing' and stuff and then hes like...said all this stuff..but i ended up fingereing my self with out washing my hands is there a chance i can be pregnet?!
please help!! (link)
if he cam on your hand, and then you fingered yourself...no your not pregnant, sperm dies when it goes outside a human body. And....i don;t no how else you would be pregnant...u have to have actual sex in order for that to happen.
-goodluck




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