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if you had the opportunity to have sex with someone you weren't dating but have hooked up with a lot over the past few months would you? i guess im just wondering because everyone says sex is supposed to be a "special" thing you share with someone you love. I think i'm ready but i'm not even dating the guy let alone love him-so if i think he is the right guy to have sex with is he worth the risk? My friend told me, "if you like him don't do it, if you don't like him then go for it"

also on a side note-if you were my friend would you lose respect for me if i made the decision to have sex?

thanks a lot yall :)

sex is a special thing. all i really have to say is if you are questioning weather or not u should have sex with this guy then you arnt ready. you just know when u are ready and when you arnt ready. if you ask the question then you arnt ready. i wouldnt just go and have sex with a guy that i messed around with. i mean if you think about it he could only be your friend because he knows that your going to have sex with him and after you have sex then he is going to never talk to you or he is just going to use you. what your friend said isnt good but itsnt bad. if i was you i wouldnt listen to what they said.
if i was your friend i wouldnt ever loose respect for you if you had sex. true friends dont do that. well i hope you make the right desision

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