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ok lets see im 15 yrs old.my nationality is greek and i've been boxin for about 2 years now(temporarily stopped but im going back)... my two passions are giving people advice and writing poetry...i dont discriminate against anyone and i will always be open with a ear to listen and a hand to guide as much as i possibly can...if ever anyone needs to a ask a question no matter what it is you can always ask me...i hope my advice is helpful to everyone and i hope everybody feel free to keep it real and write what they wanna write(evrybody has they own opinions so if yall dont like my advice yall can be real about it cause i'll only better myself by takin others criticism)so get at your greek princess...

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I have a friend who's been trying different ways to kill herself and nothing has worked for her and now she's stopped eating but she's already really skinny and I've never once heard her say she was fat and she's never had any interest in becoming anorexic until her brother died and she tried to OD and it didn't work. Do people ever become anorexic as a form of suicide or is it always because they want to be skinny?

Becoming anorexic can be caused by many different things not just because one wants to be skinny or thinks they are fat but this disorder can come from being overly stressed or depressed...saying that becoming anorexic would not be a form of suicide but just a symptom that could alert someone that the individual is stressed and needs help... when one is overly stressed or sad about a situation they tend to let themselves go and stop caring about things and the affect of that for some is they get fat because they turn to food for comfort and for others they turn away from food because they feel as though its something or the only thing they may have control of in their life...in any case your friend probably has just turned away from food because she is going through ruff times and does not know how to handle the situatuion which means she needs help or she might end up truly hurting herself...all in all your friend is not, not eating to get skinny but only cause she doesnt know what to do and i hope she can get help before something happens to her...hope my advice helped

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im 15/f. ok, please dont judge me but i seriously need help! my boyfriend went away for a week and i was at home bored. but then one of my mates was having a party so i went. but i had a lot of stuff going on in my life so i started drinking to forget them. i know i shouldnt have but i did and i got really drunk. i dont really remember much but i do remember sleeping with a lad at the party. i dont think he used a condom either because he was really drunk too. should i tell my boyfriend or not? do you think he will forgive me because i really do love him? it was just a mistake!
Help me please!

damn girl your in a really hard position now look heres what the deal is...everyone makes mistakes its human nature...some make small mistakes and some make big mistakes now the mistake you made is big but as they say two wrongs dont make a right so what you have to do is tell your boyfriend... now believe me i know its not gonna be easy to tell him this and you might not get the response that you were hoping for from him but honesty is the best policy even if sometimes it doesnt seem that way it is...just think what if you didnt tell him and somehow he found out on his own it would make the situation a million times worse then its already gonna be...also put yourself in his shoes if he did something like that to you wouldnt you wanna find out from him instead of having to hear it from someone else...being honest to someone shows them you care even when its not good news you have to say(not to say they wont be upset or mad with you)...now when you tell him this i suggest before telling him anything you explain to him exactly how you feel about him because if you dont do that first you might not get the chance to do it later...then if i were you i would tell hi exactly what happened leaving nothing out...now he might feel as though you betrayed him and trust me he will be really upset with you but if everything was ment to work out between you and him then fate will take its coarse and in the end everything will be fine...so hold your head up be a real women about your mistake and do what you gotta do...i hope my advice helped

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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship.

alright let me break it down for you...just like in r kelly's song this has the same meaning...one man can make a woman hate all men(or not trust all men)...it really sucks but thats how shit goes...that doesnt mean that you cant change it though...if you really want a real relationship after you find mrs.right all you gotta do is prove to her that sex is not all you want...you might be wondering how to prove it to her but really all you gotta do is be yourself and eventually she'll trust you if your really commited to making it work...and since im a female if i were you i would take my advice cause believe me i know best...hope i helped

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