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Hi, my name is Arlee. I like giving advice when i can. Like the rest of the world, I don't have answers for everything, but I know I do my best. Anyway, if you really want to know about me you should just ask. Otherwise, I'll be looking for your question. Please ask me anything, I don't mind, only thing I say I may not be much help with is electronics.

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So a conversation came up about getting an orgasm from a guy fingering and the girl i'm kind of with was like, no noones that good. Is she implying that her ex boyfriends probably sucked at it? I havn't done anything with her yet so she wasn't talking about me. But I know it's possible so you think theres a chance she'll be very impressed if i did give her one?

It depends on if you are good at it. If so, then you shouldn't even worry about it. But don't be cocky okay haha

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months.. but everything seems to be falling apart. ive been trying to stay strong and keep it together bc im miserable without him- im only 14 i know you think im naieve... im not calling this love by any means but right now hes everything. lately ive been doubting him bc all of my closest friends tell me about him and another girl and how they act like they go out- ive noticed it too but i dont like to start drama. well the other day i confronted him about it and he said that if he liked this other girl he wouldnt be with me- now this all seems logical but its still going on. i dont know what to do bc he's all i think about and i just had a soccer tournament and did terrible bc i couldnt stop worrying about what was gonna happen to us. homecomings in like 4 weeks and we're supposed to be going together. its getting harder and harder to keep pretending like its not bothering me and something has to be done. do i stay with him .. confront him again .. or break up with him now so its easier to get over him later? tell me what you would do in my situation or tell me what i should do- please..
thanks

i have alot of these problems with boyfriends so trust me its natural.but if this situation is starting to affect your mood and actions then you need to talk to him.for yourself more than for the relationship.if he decides he doesnt want to discus this with you or try to make things better then he's not worth it.im sure you care deeply for him and that conclusion is not easy but if he cares for you the same way,he'll do what he can to stay with you and make you happy.

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