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Q: i am a 15 year old female and i no for sure that im ready to have sex.i no that seems alittle young but im mature for my age.the thing is i was kind of going out with this guy but not really.and i was ready to be intimate with hi but i didnt no what to say ti him. i felt ready because i was falling in love. but now we arent talking anymore.and i still am ready but now i dont no who.and i dont want to get a bf and have sex with hi after a day of going with him.should i get a new man and wait till it feels right with him.or go back to my old beau(boyfriend)
you might feel ready but its much more important to wait for the guy you want to be your first...he is going to be your first forever and you dont want to look back and regret it or for it to not have been special. dont go back to your old boyfriend just for sex, its just wrong.

Q: this is going to sound really stupid, but please try to answer as best you can? im 15/f

im used to being on the bottom when kissing, and when it's flipped around so im on top.. sometimes i feel like i might be too "forceful" just because im not good with the "control position." im used to the guys having control over it.. (and yes, i like it that way, if that makes any difference.)

my question is, how do you know how much to "control" when you're on top? how do you know if you're too much, or not enough? without actually asking the person?

any help would be great, thank you!
try to read what the other person wants...if you are being too forceful they might lean backwards away from you a little or not be into it as much...if you your not forceful enough they might start leaning into you more...if you can try to sense what they want, you can adjust :]

Q: hey peeps i was just wondering what you think... should a girl tell her b/f if she is taking pregnancy pills?? xoxo i'll rate good for good answers! thanx
if you are in a serious relationship you should def. tell him, it is important to be honest...if it is stil a young relationship it should be ok to keep it from him untill you are comfortable

Q: Is it possible for girls to have wet dreams? because i wake up and theres always clearish gooey stuff in my underwear. Oh, and in school i get it to. what is it? Thank you, i rate high :)
it sounds like it is just the normal discharge and not a wet dream...although it is possible to be turned on by a dream...when you are turned on some girls discharge increases which is called getting wet...but it is normal to have a little when you are not turned on

Q: how can i get more guys to like me without being a slut?
asap help!!
i'll rate 5!!
you just have to be true to yourself and not try to be like everybody else...it helps to be a little outgoing which helps you meet more guys :]

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