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i have serious problems saying no to people. i dont know whats wrong with me.. please no smart comments.. its harder than it sounds
i practice saying no and stuff but when it comes to the time i just.. cant
i think its because ive had some bad history with my boyfriends hitting me when i wouldnt let them so as far as they would like
any adive ?
Your what they call passive, which means you always do what people tell you to, which could lead to bad things, like rape, (like you described) or drugs.
Talk to your school counsilor, or your health teacher, because that's where i learned about this. I know it sounds hard, and i know your thinking "its not that simple" but you've just got to say no. Try small things like telling your friends you don't want to hang out, or something like that, and work your way up to things like your boyfriend. If YOU dont want to go as far as he wants, then you dont have to. Technically what he did was abuse, and if he made you go farther thats sexual abuse, which is serious. Talk to you parents or your school counsilors.
Glad to help.
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My life really sucks. The guy i like has this really popular and pretty girlfriend. All the people at school make fun of me. I do not have alot of friends. My family doesn't seem like they care for me too much. I even sometimes think of suicide.
At school all of the people make fun of me. I am no dork but people make fun of me the way i dress and just plain make fun of me. On my school lacrosse team people always make fun of me. Not to brag but i am probably the best person on the team and yet there are still people making fun of me of the things i do. On my soccer team some of the girls make fun of me too. I do not have alot of friends either. My dad always bothers me to have someone come over and he asks me the number of people i called and its only about 3 because i really don't have alot of friends to call. My family is always yelling at me to. I try to be nice but then my sister makes some smart remark and then my parents expect me to be nice to her. And they think she is like the perfect angel child that does everything right. My sister even sometimes makes fun of me by saying i have no friends. Suicide is also something i think about and life is something i want to take away because it really sucks. Please add some advice to this column. It would really help. Even if it is just about one thing. Please help.
wow i can understand your problem. No matter how bad it gets, suicide is not the answer. I think you should try to talk to your parents, its worth a shot. im sure they love you. as for the girls on your lacrosse team, their just jealous, because ur better then them and they know it. Don't be afraid to talk to your school counsilor about your problems. I really hope i helped, and if you have anymore questions ask me. idc about the rating you dont have to bother
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