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my name is sarah. im willing to give my opinion to anyone who needs it so ask away...sex, relationships, teen pegnancy, everything u can think of....
i'm 20 and just had a baby boy,
i know alot about sex and pregnancy as well as relationships...
s-k

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My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for a little over 2 years. I know he really loves me, and I really love him too. The thing is, is that he has always had a fantasy of having a 3-some with me and another girl. He said it's only going to be a one time thing, and that the other girl isn't going to mean anything to him- it's just his fantasy. I understand what he is saying and I want to do this for him, but I know I would feel REALLY uncomfortable doing it and I'm not quite sure I could go through with it. I keep telling him I don't really know if I want to- but he keeps bringing it up every now and then. It makes me feel bad when I tell him no. What am I supposed to do, or what should I say to him?

yupp, ive been there.
its really tricky, have you told him it makes you uncomfortable because if he still brings it up after you explain it makes you uncomfortable then hes not being nice to you. it sounds to me like hes pressuring you which anyone who respects you shouldnt be. right?!
maybe you need to think about why a threesome would make you feel uncomfortable and really think about it...
s-k

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i have been feeling bad for a while.. i think i have the disease depression... im almost 16 years old and until recently i havent told anyone except my best friend... i want to tell my mom and go to the doctor to find out for real but im scared... im afraid she wont understand or not take me seriously or get mad... some of my symptoms are: alot of insecurities with myself, feeling empty, trapped, i always wanna stay home and sleep, i hate myself, im sick of my life, and i have alot of regrets.... im not so bad that im thinking of suicide though.. i would NEVER do that.... the thing is i think i have a pretty good life and im lucky for the things i have and that makes me feel really guilty about feeling bad..... i have a good house, im healthy, i have a family who loves me, my parents are together, and i have alot of stuff but i still feel depressed....... i no there are people who have it so much worse than me and all that makes me feel so much worse about how i have been feeling.... my questions are do u think i am really depressed like.. do u think i have the disease or do u think im just a moody teenager? and do u think i should tell my mother? please please time one million answer my questions!!!! i reallyyyyyyy need help!

its a good thing that you noticed, i was like that a couple years ago. i felt bad for not being happy when i knew i should have been, i can relate to what youre saying...
maybe you could write a letter to yourself about why you should be happy, oh, you could also write a list about what youre not happy about and find different ways to change them for the better...please do something for yourself, like dancing in your room without caring, be free and do something to make yourself happy...
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Girlz, I need your help! I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now...Im supposed to go to his house tonite, he says he wants to have dinner and us cuddle and watch a movie, then he wants to tell me something he says will shock me and bring a smile to my face...Here's the problem, Im on my period..I do NOT want it to screw up what is going to be a great nite...Does anyone know or ever heard of any at home remedies or anything that can stop my period? I just started, so it's a barely there kinda' thing right now, but I dont want it at all! please help!!!! I rate HIGH

a little good news but also bad you cant stop your period sorry, thats just mother nature
good news is you can still work around it, you guys could jump in the shower you could do other things than sex...the way he told you sounds like maybe he wants to do something to you...for your pleasure. maybe you should let him do whatever until he gets a little too close to 'home' and then maybe just mention to him whats going on but you shouldnt really mention it and talk about it unless you really have to because you might fuss for nothing...
s-k

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At school I was in the locker room and I was taking a shower and then a brat came by whe nI got out and told me she wanted to show me something and I only had 5 minutes before the next class so I just was like fine so when I went to see what it was she got about 3 of her friends to take off my towel and pushed me out side with all the other people and then the classes where changing and the locker room was locked and every one say me naked I mean butt naked and now ever one makes fun of me saying I should be a striper and all

sometimes being called a stripper can be good, think about it...they arent saying youre fat right? they are actually giving you a compliment, maybe when they say that you could tell them you thought about it but youre afraid u'll make too much money or steal all their boyfriends... but i know it sucks...thats a mean thing to do to someone.
you can chose to see it as 'wow people were giving me compliments, im hot!' or you could see it all negative but really i would rather see you happy about it. shes a bitch and she'll get it all back in the end right?! exactly.
s-k

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