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so i'm not asking you whether or not to do this i just need some suggestions! i want to have my good guy friend over in a couple weekends because my parents are leaving for the weekend. we've always talked about sex, and I have been pondering on the thought for probably 3 years now but things just haven't happend. I'm ready for it to happen now, don't tell me not to because I know i'd regret NOT doing it with him. The thing is I want to just kind of be in like booty shorts and a bra when he gets here to look really hot and kind of give him the impression :] do you think he would kind of be like what the hell??? I wouldn't want him to be like why aren't you dressed haha or do you guys have any other good suggestions!!
thanks!:) (link)
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I take it he doesn't know you're planning this, and if that's the case, then no, don't come to the door wearing hardly nothing or you're right, he will be like 'uhh what are you doing?' and you'll make yourself look too easy and desperate. I think you should just wear a cute outfit, maybe a little revealing, but don't over-do it. And just flirt around with him the whole time, and kinda beat around the bush about having sex. You should be able to get him to make the first move by doing that, but if not, then go in for a kiss and it should lead into it after that, if he wants it to.
Hope I helped!
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I have been taking birth control for about 2-3 years,for the majority of that time I was having sex.There was a period of time where I didn't have sex for probably 5-6 months and recently I had sex again.BUT ,ive been taking my birth control a little weird.Sometimes i would take it at random times in the day,sometimes i would keep it consistent and sometimes I would even forget to take it but the majority of it gets taken. When I had sex the other day,he pulled out and came on a towel but i feel as though not all of it was in that one spot.He swears he didn't come in me ,but I'm just a little worried.And today,i was having feelings (kinda like period cramps,but im in the middle of my birth control cycle) and when i went to the bathroom ,some clumps of what seemed to be period blood but was sort of brownish was there but not a lot ,only a slight amount.What's the deal here?! (link)
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Here's the thing with birth control pills: it is VERY important that you take them at the same time every day.
I really don't think you are pregnant, especially since you had some blood and all,but it's still possible.
I'm on birth control also and have been for about 2 years, and it has made my cycle really weird, and I'll have a little blood like that too and not actually have a period.Plus, started back having sex again after you haven't for awhile can mess up your cycle also.
But just to be sure, go ahead and take a test.
just make sure from now on that you set a specific time each day to take your pill.
Hope I helped!
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Idk if it's a yeast infection, a bladder infection, or something else.
I'm mostly a virgin.
(13/F)
I have random extreme mucusy discharge or white discharge. Like, I need two sheets of tp to clean it up! My underwear is screwed up normally.
I pee all the time and half the time it burns.
I have a rash? right below my belly button.
vj smells, bad. even if i shower.
appreciate help.
also, what are the causes of a yeast infection?
or bladder? thanks! (link)
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with a yeast infection you are going to itch A LOT.
like, it will be almost unbearable.
you should get it checked out though..
Have you started your period yet? A lot of girls start having discharge and stuff like you described before they start their period for the first time.
From what you described, it's definitely not a bladder infection,though.
Definitely go get it checked out.
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please dont judge me but im 17 and living in new jersey... is there any way i can get an abortion without telling my parents? and how expensive are then? They'd kill me if they found out... (link)
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Okay, first of all..you need to check the laws on abortion in your state, because I know where I'm from you have to have a guardian sign for you.
Second, abortions are pretty costly for someone your age..around $400.
Just make sure that's what you want before you jump into it..
Hope I helped!
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I've been trying to get birth control pills for a few days but I don't want to tell my grandma (my mom passed away and my dad lives somewhere else so I live with my grandma) I tried calling planned parenthood but they never answer. I'm allowed to stay one hour after school and I was planning on going to planned parenthood then but it's always packed. I don't know anything about my medical insurance or anything like that and I'm broke so what do I have to do to get them free? Is there any other way I can make an appointment? I tried doing it online too but it wouldn't let me make an account. (link)
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They give out free birth control at most health departments.
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me and my boyfriend for the first time last week had sex, and we didn't use a condom for like the first 5 minutes. and i'm just worried i'm pregnant. he said he didn't pre or do anything else, but i'm still worried. i'm 15, and sex talk is bad with my mom and dad, cause i told my mom once i had sex. and she was angry. but i'm more scared this time to tell them, my boyfriends mom knows about it though. but what are signs that i am ? or do you think i could possibly be ? oh and i've been having a sharp pain in my stomach at times. i don't know what it is. but maybe i'm just paranoid. (link)
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I agree that you're probably just being paranoid, but it is possible, and he wouldn't be able to tell when he pre-came.
wait another week or two, then take a test.
I wouldn't say anything to your parents until you've taken a test, 'cause you don't want to get yelled at for no reason!
but good luck!
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So usually when i cum i never actually "shoot", it just kinda rolls out. Do girls find it less attractive if you dont "shoot"? (link)
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cum is cum.. it doesn't make you any less of a man if it rolls out or shoots out or explodes out! lol
seriously though, don't worry about it.
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In September my boyfrend and I had unprotected sex (i know that wasnt smart) anyways since then i hav had my period three times september, october,november. But for the past two mornings i have woken up feeling very nauseous could this be from my period or am i pregnant? (link)
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You can still be pregnant even if you've had a couple of periods. So the best thing to do is take a pregnancy test!
Good luck!
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