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okay, well i'm not pregnant or anything.. i've just been thinking about stuff, that i wonder about.
1. if there was a guy that acted like a girl, and a girl that acted like a guy.. wouldn't they be able to go out with eachother? which would probably consider them as straight?
2. what does a guy mean by leaving it "dripping wet"?
please & thank you. :] (link)
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Well it depends on what you mean by acted, like the girl acting a little bit girly or he thinks he's a girl, and the girl thinks that she's a guy, than they would probably go out, unless the guy that thinks he's a girl thinks that he's a lesbian, then they wouldn't, it's a little confusing but that's the jist.
And the guy means exactly as it says, dripping wet like for a girl or a guy something wet coming out of the vigina or penis from being as we say it "Excited" or as most people know it as horny.
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is it bad if you have sex and you havent even started your period cycle yet? will it mess with your horemones? (link)
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no it will not mess with your horemones, they will be perfectly fine but make sure that you wear a condom because eggs could still get fertilized if he cums inside of you.
-Beanie
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14/f.
My boyfriend is 16/m.
Ok; my boyfriend and I have talked it over, and we are ready to have sex. I don't want to go into too many details, because that's not what this question is asking. I was wondering what pre-cautions we could take to not get me pregnate.[sp?] Like, if he gets off, should we change the condom? It's both our first time and I am very nervous. He dosen't seem to be, but I was just wondering.
p.s. Birth control isn't an option. (link)
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Well one thing would be just not to have sex, but that's probably not what you want to hear lol, you could have him pull out when he thinks he's going to cum so when he does cum he cums in the condom and not in you.
-Beanie
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what is some stuff i could do w/ my bf without having sex..just like fun stuff
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Dear fun stuff,
Try just giving him a hand job, yes i know it seems like it wouldn't be anything but if you hit this spot around the crease of the head it will just drive him crazy! it'll make him want to make you stop because it feels too good! good luck
-beanie
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i might be prgenate and if iam im not to sure of how to tell my parents .. wat should i do (link)
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Well first of all you deffinetly don't know if you are or not unless you have seen a doctor or taken a pregnency test. So do that if you haven't and if you have and you found out then the best thing to do is to sit down with your parents, probably your mom first if you could then be like "Mom i'm in some trouble and I want to know if you will be there for me throught the whole problemdd." and just kinda let her know you're going to have to tell her eventually anyways, just be careful how you word certain things, and try not to bring up the guy at the moment because that will just get them mad. Wait until like the next day to tell her aboput the guy.
-Beanie
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I am so stressed out and depressed right now. My grades keep dropping and I try so hard to keep them up but some times it's so hard.
I went to the ER a few weeks ago because of my depression and my parents were so mad! I did counseling, so when I told a counselor about my suicidal thoughts that's when they directed me to the ER.
Now, I am afraid to go back to counseling, because if they send me back to the ER my parents will be pissed, also because of the huge medical bill we got from going to the ER last time. I'd hate to waste my parents' time and money over my mental health.
It's so hard to be happy right now, even when I try to. My friends tend to think nothing about it, and leave me alone. And at some occasions, even ignore me.
I feel so overwhelmed and stress, probably mainly because of school, my job, and christmas.
Please help me out, give me advice how to overcome and/or deal with this. =[
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Dear overwhelmed,
This is a really hard topic and i'm going to do the best i can to help.
First of all please don't go suicidal, because scientists were studying it and %90 of suicidal people regret what going suicidal but it's too late to turn back.
I'm afriad of counsling too, they aren't the best resources in my opinion, you need to find something you enjoy that doesn't get you stressed.
-Find a video game that you love that you can get lost in
-Find a book series that will grab your attention
-Try to hang out with your friends some more
-Join a sports team, it'll motivate you to keep your grades up
Pretty much just distract your mind. And as far as your parents sit down and talk with them, let them know what is going on in your life it may not be the first thing on your mind to do but it's a good idea, because it's better to cry or talk and just let everything out to people who are close to you then to hide it away from them, your parents probably have no clue what you are going through and you should let them know because they can't read your mind. Let them know then that will make you less stressful.
If you need more help just message me again or e-mail me at
elementskater0615@yahoo.com
-Beanie
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okay i am a virgin, so i haven't had experience with guys pleasing me "down there". i am getting married next month and i know it is something that will come up soon, so i want to know how i could make sure that it is fresh. so it doesn't smell or taste nasty. thank you:)
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Dear Freshness,
just use good old soap and water, maybe a scented soap.
-Beanie
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Please dont send me to any websites.
Okay, I missed my period last month and this month.
I really crave pickles with bagels & cream cheese, pickles and chocolate, pickles and crunchy peanut butter, and soda. And I HATE PICKLES!...
Also ..I weighed like 132 a few weeks ago and now Im like 150...wtf????
I dont know..I took 2 home tests.. but they were only $1.39...and they were really cheap...But they were (-)...My health ins hasnt kicked in so i cant goto the doctor. plus my family would kill me...
what do u think/
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Dear am i pregnant,
Some people just have off months, and plus you can go to a doctor by yourself and ask them to check to see if you are pregnant, you can keep it confidential if you ask the doctor to. Or just buy a better pregnancy test. And maybe you're just going through a weight change it happens to me alot too. I weighed 120 one week and the next i was at 135 and then it goes back down. So just wait another week, take another pregnancy test and if you're still worried go to a doctor. And plus if you are your family will find out about it sooner or later, plus you don't want to be in this alone, your family will stick right beside you no matter what the problem is.
-Beanie
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how can you tell if ur pregnant or not. i mean i've been getting this weird feeling in my lower stomach
and i just had sex for the first time a few days ago.
does this feeling happen to all girls or am i pregnant?
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Dear how do you tell,
If you are dizzy and what not you might want to get a test. But as far as thatfeeling in your stomach your probably just been thinking about alot and you may subconciously be thinking about it alot and it may be making you ill. Although it still wouldn't hurt to get a test from the drug store.
-Beanie
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is there some sort of std that you can also get on your mouth? Its like a huge amount really small whitish spots down there - not so many on the mouth though.
thanx (link)
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Dear STDS,
You might want to get that checked out by a doctor. It may be regular herpes or Cold Soars, which is another form of herpes but not as bad. But you still might want to get it checked, even though it's embaressing it needs to be done.
-Beanie
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16/f
My friend was telling me about her and her Boy friend and she mentioned the words "ejaculates" and "comes." Me and my boyfriend havent had sex and i'm pretty sure thats what she was talking about, but i was afrid to ask her what ejaculates and comes ment. plez tell me. (link)
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Dear Ejaculation/cums,
Cum and ejaculates has to do with Sex but it doesn't at the same time. A guy pretty much durring sex at one point cums inside the female, which will get her pregnent if not wearing a condom. But also a guy cums when hemasterbats, gets "off", which means horny.
any more questions about it just e-mail me.
-Beanie
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