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sex makes your boobs grow bigger

no, that is not true. being on birth control can make your boobs bigger though.

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Is it ok to commit suicide for unselfish reasons. i know the people who love me will be hurting emotionally but if I kill myself they will receive 2 million dollars. Right now we have almost no money left with no income coming in. I'm in constant pain due to a failed surgery and pretty much stay in bed all day ( I am 49 years old). I'm not afraid to die because I know I will see my son who died 3 years ago and I miss him so much, but I am afraid of pain or not succeeding and becoming a vegetable and not having my family collect my insurance. I still have a 17 year old son at home and he has one year left in private school, right now I can't afford his tuition. We won't have money for food soon. My husband of 9 years tries very hard he started a company but hasn't made money in years. I took a look at my policy and it does pay if I kill myself after 2 years. I've had the policy for 6 years. I don't want to die but I want to help my family and this seems like the only way i can help them. I am so afraid of us running out of money. Please help me get the courage I need to do this and help me figure out the best and least painful way to as well.

your life is much more important than any amount of money. you only get to live once. think about how much your son and husband will miss you. no amount of money can compensate for the emotional pain of losing someone. everyone goes through rough patches in their life but NOTHING is bad enough to end your life. if you and your husband and son love each other than that should be more important than money. you don't need money to have a happy life. i'm sure things will get better. thing about making adjustments to save money. can you send your son to a public school instead of a private one? (that may not be ideal, but it will save you a lot of money for now). maybe your husband should consider selling his business and finding a new job. there are ways to work around every problem and things WILL get better, you just have to give them a chance to and ending your life will not do any good.

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