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So I am 17 years old and i have been dating this guy for 6 months. All we have done is make out, he is a very horny guy and he always wants to do more and more. He wants to do everything, i think im nervous because i don't want him to think I'm bad at it. I am nervous about giving him a blow job because i have never done that before, and i am nervous about sex i just want to please him but i want to be good at it too. any advice as to what i should do?? (link)
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Well only do any of that if you feel ready of course. But if you are ready and the only thing holding you back is being good at it think of this... you can't get better at it until you do it. Putting it off just because you are afraid you wont please him isn't going to make you any better when you decide to. If he's as horny as you say, I think anything will please him. But you will never know until you try, and once you've done it a few times you'll understand exactly what to do. Make sure he knows it is your first time doing all of this and to give you pointers. Tell him you want to know when you're doing someting well so you will keep doing it. Talk about it ahead of time too and find out what it is that he likes. Everyone is nrvous about having sex for the first time, but it is important that when you do decide to go through with it that he knows you area virgin. Tell him to be gentle with you and you will tell him if something hurts or feels good. If he is a virgin as well he will be very cautious anyway. It is important that you aren't too nervous because if you are you will tense up your body, which will tighten your vagina and make it hurt when he is inside of you. As for a blow job, all that you really need to know I'm sure you already do know... no teeth, and suck as well as using your tongue. Have fun ;)
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First I want to apologize if this is in the wrong section!!
17/m
On sunday, March 17th I had sex with my girlfriend, who is 15.
We did use a condom. While having sex I came in the condom still in her and continued to thrust a bit.. I pulled out and the condom was like 1/3 off my penis. She had white stuff around her vagina. I immediately took off the condom and checked for a break and even filled it with water to see (I'll always fill it with water to make sure there is no breaks) and I was scared because this was our first time together. We both have had other partners. She said she didn't know if she orgasmed or not. The next day on the 18th I gave her a morning after pill to just be cautious. She said she was not ovulating.
I looked up when she was suppose to be ovulating and it was the 13th to the 15th or something like that. It was up till the 15th I just don't remember the start date. Tomorrow (Wednesday March 26th) she is suppose to get her period. Today she said her boobs have hurt really bad and has been craving water. I am very worried about this because I can't have a child. I just got a new car and make payments on that and I go to college in a year. Our parents would be very upset with us. Plus I don't want any charges filed on me.
I am really scared and nervous. What are the odds she is pregnant? She is starting to get nervous and stuff too.
I need help and advice. (link)
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The plan B pill can cause her to ahve cravings and for her breasts to hurt as well. If none of your semen got inside of her, there is no chance that she was even pregnant to start. The white stuff may have been her natural lube, or even the lube/latex of the condom. Sex always has a risk involved, so I can't tell you any answer 100%, however it is highly unlikely, expecially since she took the plan B pill. For future reference the sooner she takes that pill the more effective it is though. I think everything is fine. Have he go to planned parenthood or her doctor and get on birth control to avoid these scares in the future. If you have a planned parenthood around you, they also give out free condoms and exams, and the birth control is free with insurance. Good Luck with everything. Remind her that is she stresses out about this is may cause her period to come late. for some reason stress does that to girls' mentral cycles.
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