Hi there. I am a 25 year old girl from Australia. Id like to offer advice to people who want to listen and I try very hard to make sure that the advice I give is informative and helpful. I am still young and have alot to learn about life and all its experiences but Id like to think that in my 25 years I have learned a thing or two that someone else hasnt learned and therefore can offer advice and help where I can.
Gender: Female
Location: Australia
Occupation: Musician
Age: 25
Member Since: November 27, 2009
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My bestfriend told me that she had sex with this guy liam.. this was like 5 - 6 months ago.. ages I know.. but dont you normally fall in love or something with the guy you lose it to. Or isnt it supposed to be special and not a one night stand. When i lost mine to my boyfriend it was special and i loved him even more & that is the same with pretty much everyone else I know that lost theres.. but now shes come to having sex with someone else.. shes like.. planned it? but now shes all scared and she said she 'doesnt know what to do' when shes having sex does this mean shes virgin? and how do I explain this to her without her getting mad at me? (link)
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Well for starters its perfectly normal to lose your virginity to a guy that you dont love, it may not be something you agree with because its not something YOU would do but girls/women/boys/men do it everyday. Sex is a very personal thing and its different with every person and situation. The fact that you lost your virginity to someone you love is great and yes it really should happen this way but it doesnt always happen the way that you want it to. If your friend says she doesnt know what to do when having sex, it doesnt necessarily mean she isnt a virgin, as it does take alot of practice with someone you are comfortable with to feel like it IS right. I would suggest talking to your friend as she may feel like she was pressured into having sex in the first place or maybe she just told you she had sex to sound grown up or something. The best thing you can do is just talk and listen to her without passing judgment and remember SAFE SEX!!!!! :) Hope this helps you.....
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