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me && my boyfriend have bein having sex for a while now, well now im sorta wishing i would have waited.
i love having sex with him, && pleasing him. And we are comfortable with everything and we're trying to talk about everything more openly now.
&& before sex he always asks if im sure and everything, and normally i am, but afterward i kinda wish we hadnt, but sometimes i dont.
how do i tell him a want to slow it down every now and then??
Thanx n advance
If you are comfortable enough to have sex with him, you should be comfortable enough talking about this with him. If you're not, then whether you are happy you had sex or not, it was a mistake. Talk before you strip, and think before you talk.
Just sit him down and talk to him. He asks you if you're sure you want to do this for a reason, and he obviously cares for you to some degree, right? Try this:
"Hey (his name). I've been meaning to talk to you about something. (Then take his hand) I wanna take things slower, I think maybe sex was just a big jump from what we used to do and I'd rather go back and cross that bridge again slower. I should've told you before, and I'm sorry."
If you'd like, you don't even have to bring it up until he brings up sex and I know it's tempting so just ask God for endurance and strength to do this right. Go through your life at your own pace.
I know everybody thinks parents are dorky about the sex topic, but they say to wait for marriage for a reason; because in most cases you'll get a disease or get pregnant before you're ready and regret it. Plus you're just supposed to wait. You don't know what you're doing if you're a fourteen year old girl with a two year old kid let's say because you had early sex. Or you could get a disease & die. :(
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