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Okaii I have decided to start this adive thinq I am 19 years old currently out of school not planninq on qoinq to colleqe or anythinq but I also love to chat online to my friends and always am in need of helpinq someone with problems so I fiqured this would be a qood opportunity for me to do that!

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2 questions...17/f...ok
1) List some pregnancy signs i know everyones different and not all the signs happen to everyone but please list them so i know what they are??
2) OK i know you can get an abortion without telling your parents by going through court..so can if you have ever had one or no someone who has done it this way..please let me know how i can do this?
thanks xoxo
FHOHIL

im sorry but having sex and getting pregnant then going and killing an innocent kid thats just wrong im sorry but I hope you know what you doing!

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I have a friend that had a child 1 year ago, and she is recently haveing unpretected sex for the past 2 weeks. She said that milk is comeing out of her breast and she is geting morning sickness. Me being a mother, that was my frist sign for me that i was pregnet. Someone told me that it it normal for mothers that after a year of haveing your child for milk to come out your breast. We also took a pregnacey test, and it said that she was not pregnet, but we were thinking that maybe it is to soon to tell.
What do you think??? thanks for the help.she is 17 yrs old by the way.

well for one you need to either talk to your friend or have someone else thats an adult talk to her becuase she is way to young to be a mom (even though she is already one) I truly dont think she is ready and would be able to handle another child with this one being so young and your best bet is to truly go to the doctor and tell them and then let them do the exam etc..so you know for sure and also try to tell her that by using condoms they are a big help and trojan is now making stuff for girls so it may be good for her..I understand people say sex is good without using condoms but think of the risks either stds and not being able to have kids or having them too young and struggling to take care of them because your mom doesnt wanna help you gotta read stuff and sit down and think before your actions hope I helped
Danielle!

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I have a ten-year old sister and she has a bf. One day i caught them making out. I didn't make much of it. When I came back she was sucking his penis. I don't want my sister to be a sex addict but how do i confront her about this?

Look for you safety it's best that you talk to your mom about it because she is 10 and thats way to young to be doing anything of the sort she could end up pregnant by the age of 13 or even get an std...its for your good and hers so please talk to your mom,
hope I helped

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So ok i had sex um like two weeks ago....Down there is kinda like all red and it looks like someone like burnt the first layer of my skin off. See after i had sex it got real ichy(i thought maybe he cut me with his finger nails down there does that make you ichy?) But today after my shower i seen that there was like a lump but its like a pimp but its not one its just a blister looking type thing. I herd from people he had STD's and he does fuck and isnt safe...Are thease signs of a STD?

Look, hun! just go tell your mom and everything tell her your worried and need checked and I just hope it isnt an std..and that all the dumb ass losers and bitches who are so mean in this site get taught a lesson the next time they do anything its not right for them to want you to get an std..they are so horrible..and its tuff explaining it to someone that wants to sleep with you..etc..but I hope I helped.

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i am 14 years old and i have a boyfriend. we have been going out for over 3 months now and we have hooked up many of times and he wants to go down my pants. i want him to aswell but i am scared, because i am not sure whether i should have hair down there or just to shave or get it waxed. please help me i am confussed!?

Hello, nothing to worry about but you are supposed to have hair down their for many reasons but you can take your razor and shave it all off or some of it or have it waxed if your good at it put your boyfriends name or initials in it...to drive him wild even though your still a little too young to be having (sex) or anything like that but just remember be safe and use a condom.

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hey i am 14 years old and my boyfrend wants to finger me. i want him to and i'm not scared about that but i just dont no what to do or anything i need serious help... lol and i am not to sure what happens when he does it either!?

Well listen if you are going to let him finger you he needs to make sure his fingernails are not long because your insides are very easy to cut and he can cut you with his fingernail and cause you to bleed which you just have to let it heel if he would happen to but other than that all that happens is he will stick is finqer into your vagiana and sometimes do and in and out thing like he is fucking you with his dick but its his finger some guys do it differently and to really make him go nuts try and layer up your underwear like if you where thongs the put layers of youe actual underwear ontop then the thong can be the last thing if not just layer your original underwear and yeah if you haven't had sex before theres a chance he could pop your cherry and make you bleed so dont worry I hope I really helped.

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Whats duche bag...sorry ihave no clue how to spell it

Hey I do believe it's called Douche and it's something that Women use to clean out their area down their (private part) you more or less can read about it by going to www.google.com and reading about it just type in Douche (it may be spelled without the E) and it will bring you up a list of information on it...if you are looking into doing it it's prefectly normal I hope I helped alot.

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hey my friend is 15 years old and she is having a baby what should i do to help and what should she do

Hello, well what you can do is if she is willing to have this baby and give it full resposiblity as a parent then help her through all of this no matter what people will say to her they make call her slut or whore but you gotta help her to keep her head up high and remind her that she is going to have a new part to her life that she can teach everything and yes at 15 I think its way to young to have a baby but things come unexpectidly sometimes and if you want you can also help her to pick out everything she will need help set up the room with the baby if she is willing to keep it you just gotta be there for her no matter what the choice is okay and you can always keep me posted on what happens im here..

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