E-mail:
bundy.dani@yahoo.comGender:
FemaleLocation:
MarylandAge:
20AIM:
VivaLaDanixoMember Since:
February 10, 2010Answers:
6Last Update:
February 15, 2010Visitors:
2321Main Categories:
Work/School Relationships
Fashion and Styles
General Sex Questions
View All
about
Hi! I'm Dani, I am twenty years old. I was attending college but took some time off. Like any other twenty year old girl, I love fashion, partying and going out with my friends. I moved to California for awhile, but decided home was better for the moment :-) Recently i've learned that things don't always work out the way you would hope, & I would love to help people through this beautiful disaster we call LIFE.
advice
hey.. so im 16f and wanting some advice on a guy and sex.. so ive known this guy, lets call him john, for a while and we've liked eachother on and off,we havnt talked alot he moved and cuz i started talking to one of his friends which i still am. but me and john want to hangout soon and first im debating on wether i should or not.. me and him always had the emotional aspect of a relationship but we never experienced the physical with eachother. so i know if we hangout we're going to get physical, and i want to have sex with this guy but i cant, im a virgin and i dont want to be that easy and other reasons, so how do i know when were about to have sex..? like are there specific things that he will do that shows like hes ready to have sex. and when we are about to, how can i stop that from happening without like crushing him and killing the moment? lol. other than that i want to get physical with him, just NOT regular sex.
Okay, well any guy will automatically try to see how far he can go...its like a male instinct. lol So when it gets to where you want to stop, just tell him to. What I do when I don't want to have sex with a guy, is be up front with him. Now, when you are ready to lose your virginity, you'll know. It sounds cliche but its the truth. Do whatever makes you comfortable and remember not to let any guy pressure you into anything. Most guys understand that a decision like that is the girls, he should be alright with it. & if he isn't then he isn't being a good guy. Sex is a big deal, so play it safe. Hope this helps..good luck!