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Hey There! Im Nikki, a 14 year old Aries, who just wants 2 make life a little better 4 everyone!:P

We've all got our ups and downs, but what helps me stay positive and fun, is 2 not let the negitive bother u, stay positive and always remeber im always up 4 any questions! :)

And yeah, yeah i know what your thinking... "Oh yeah, its easy for you to stay positive and energetic! But i got my problems too!"

Well, the truth is i know, how difficult it is. But when u have good advice from either me or any one else on this site, and good mates you can get through this situation you're stuck in, in no time.

Love, Nikki
xoxo
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Hello, I'm not exactly worried but I'd like reassurance. About 2 months ago I had sex for the first time. We didn't finish, but no pain and no blood.

Today we had sex again but didn't finish but still no pain and no blood. But later in the evening he was fingering me with several fingers rather deep and all of a sudden he says "oh man, that can't be good" and I look down and I'm bleeding a lot! Like, it was all over his hand and when I urinated it was in the urine, like a period. But it definatly isn't period. It isn't bleeding into my underwear anymore but when I use the bathroom I still wipe away blood. Is this normal? It spooked me to see that much blood.

I'm 15, and at boarding school. I know my parents would be furious if they knew I've done stuff like this so there's no real way for me to get help if there is a problem.

Is everything normal?

And another thing, he didn't come, but I'm sure he precame. We used a condom and all. And he blew into it after and it held the air. So, it didn't break and there's no way I got pregnant....right???

I need advice, please. (link)
Your cherry popped! Well most likely.. when you have sex, and his penis or in your case- his finger (lol) goes REALLY deep into your vagina it starts to bleed. Dont worry about it, it happens to alot of people.


ok, so me and my boyfriend have been talking about having sex. I just wanted to know, should i shave down there before we do it?? if so what should i use, or should i not shave down there at all.. or would that be really wierd..
any help will do ! Thx!! (link)
Lol i honestly think you should shave coz i dont think he would really like sticking it in wen its all hairy...

or maybe you should wax and leave a little stuble there to remind him that you waxed your pubes just for him!

lol have fun!
nikki xox


do guys like get disgusted when you bleed when you have sex for the first time? i mean doesnt that get blood on there "parts" and stuff?






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Depends on the guy your doing it with, if they were the right guy, they would totally understand.

Anyhoo, you would usualy bleed a day or so after you've had sex.

-Nikki xox


how do you know when you like someone enough to actually have sex with them (link)
well theres a differnce between love/like and lust.
but usually u start do get all horny, and want to do some sexual things to them. thats when you know you want to have sex with them.

Love, Nikki
xox




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