"Spit it out. Thats nasty. O_o It tastes gross and you could get sick from it."

That girl really doesn't know what she's talking about. Of course you COULD get sick, but you CAN sick from almost anything. The taste isn't that great, but it's not awful either. It's sorta just... blah. As to something semen tastes like, I still haven't discovered a good comparison. As for spitting vs. swallowing I do a combination of the two. It's really up to personal prefrence.

Everything you mentioned is normal. Don't shave your stomach, but if you feel like you want to trim around your nipple are, that's fine.

It's completely up to YOU. He should respect your descion no matter what. But in all honesty, I think shaving would be your best bet. Guys tend to like it better when their girlfriend shaves. If you feel uncomftorable about doing so, simply don't. No biggie : )

You asked "How do you know if you're having an orgasm?" & my answer is, simply... trust me, you'll know it! It occurs when a man/woman is experiencing maxium sexual pleasure.

All guys are turned on by different things, there is no set answer. Guys can get hard while fingering a girl because of the girl's reactions. He doesn't get that way simply because he is fingering her. If the girl is really into it, makes sounds, etc. I'm sure he'll get pretty excited by that.

Everyones defintion of "feeling good" is different, but here is my personal opinion.


Being fingered feels good, but when a guy touches outside (near the clit.) instead of inside it feels a lot better. Did your friend say that giving a blow job FELT awesome or IS awesome? Because giving one doesn't give a good feeling to the girl, but it can make her happy because she is making him happy. Make sense? It can really put people in the mood, too.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baseball_euphemism

It's got it all.

5 to 7 inches.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=blue+ball

This website will provide you with more definitons than I could ever come up with.

It all comes down to personal morals/preferences/beliefs/etc. I PERSONALLY think sex should be shared between two people in love, not necessarily two people that are married. I PERSONALLY think age doesn't matter as long as the person is aware of the consequences of pregnancy and STDs.

This website will provide you with more of a general answer to your question.

http://marriage.about.com/cs/sexualstatistics/a/sexstatistics.htm

If none of this satisfies your curiosity, please write me back. I don't mind finding more info for you. Take care.

http://www.ovulook.com/works/when.html

"Most women ovulate near the middle of their monthly menstrual cycle. The average cycle length for a woman is between 23 to 35 days. It is possible, however, to have a longer or shorter menstrual cycle. Sometimes it is even possible to have ovulation occur twice in one month, or to have a month where no ovulation occurs at all. Most doctors agree that ovulation usually happens 13 to 14 days before starting your period or monthly bleeding."

http://www.talksexwithsue.com/Gspot.html

"The G Spot is a small area, (about 1 inch diameter) inside the vagina, up about an inch and half to two inches. Appropriate stimulation will cause the female to take a deep breath and push down real hard. Most women describe the sensation as feeling they want to urinate - they have a powerful urge to "bear down", same sensation of pushing when delivering a baby. They take a deep breath, hold it and push right down to their bottom."

Basically if a guy finds a girl's g spot, she will feel maximum pleasure during sex.

There's no specific way for a guy to "find" it. I guess practice makes perfect.

This website will provide you with more defintions than I could ever come up with.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=tea+bag

Up and down the neck is fine. Open your mouth a little, but no tongue. Atleast not too much... that could get kinda weird. Nibble on his ear, too.

Nothing at all. Most periods don't follow a set schedule. If you still haven't gotten a consistent period by your 18th birthday, I would go to a doctor... just to see what the deal is. But you have nothing to worry about!

How many times have you maturbated before? If it's only been a couple times maybe you're still feeling a little awkward about the whole situation & just can't get it all the way up. It's nothing to worry about or feel ashamed for. Just like the girl below me said, some guys don't orgasm at all while masturbating.

Go to www.urbandictionary.com & type in vibrator. I know this probably isn't the answer you're looking for, but that site offers more defintions than I could ever come up with.

When a guy cums, he is having an orgasm. Or vise versa. Both events take place at the same time. There is no way for one to happen, but not the other. If that makes sense. Girls on the other hand can have many orgasms without cumming. Hope I helped clearify.

Your hymen can break for many different reasons. What happened to you during ballet class seems like something that could have trigered the break. No worries. If your still sore in a couple of days, you might want to make a doctors appoinment... But I really wouldn't worry about it anytime soon! & Yes you are still a virgin. Good luck!

When you "pop your cherry" it means a layer of skin, called the hymen, has been broken. This usally happens during the first time you partake in sex, but it can also occur from numerous other activites. For example: using a tampon or a type of accident when the skin accidently breaks.

Honestly, I don't think having sex right now is the best idea (for you). I personally think sex should be shared with someone you love entirely. Since your boyfriend doesn't even know that your a virgin might also mean he doesn't know other details about you. I know you don't want any regrets your first time. (This is just an observation and I might be totally off.) Good luck!

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