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im having trouble getting lucky can u please help me!!!

hmm...sounds like a personal problem to me :)

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i think this weekend my boyfriend and i will start having oral sex..i've never done it before but he has and he's had sex before....i don't wear thongs.. but yet i don't wear big grandma underwear..they're exactlylike thongs.. like with the strings around the hips and all.. but instead of the string up my ass, it's just all covered..i'm scared that his other girlfriends wore thongs and stuff and that when he sees i don't he'll think i'm like a looser or something...do you think it matters.....or do guys REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY prefer thongs and totally hate like thekinda underwear i wear

It shouldn't matter...

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What's a yest infection?

itchy

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i just got my period and i was wondering what kind of tampons are best

Tampax Pearl is a good one...

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Okay me and my boyfriend have sex but the thing is we have never used a condom and I'm not on birth control. I talked to him about it before and we agreed to start using them. But that never happened...I really wish we would but I dont want to say something about it again.....what should i do?

uh, the common sense thing to do would be to talk to him about your morals because I'm pretty sure you aren't wanting to get preggie! :)

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Hey. Im 17 years old, and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We live together and everything, but one night, when we were having sex, we didnt even notice the condom slip off. Well, he came inside of me, and then we looked frantically for a condom we though was still on. The next day it came out of me, but there was no cum in it or anything. it was as clear as it was when it first came on. Also, im not on birth control. It has been 2 weeks since, and I was just wondering if there is any chance of getting pregnant. Also, it was only 2 or 3 days after my period. So, can i?

: ) get a pregnancy test...

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i have a lot of questions regarding sex, relationships, and everything in between.. but some questions are too personal to ask.. is there any columnist who has an AIM screen name who can answer my questions.. i'll feel really weird asking them but i have no one here to help me and there's a lot on my mind and i would really appreciate the help..

thanx♥

I would be more than happy to help you with anything! My s/n is x3 brunette glam!

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im a teenage girl who truly hates her parents to death. They've both cheated on each other, and not just once. They dont think or care about me or my careless little 9 year old brother. They have me in the middle hoping i'll pick or protect one of them, and they've said no matter who i pick, i'll still lose one of them and wont get to see them ever again, but their both literally whores. Worst thing is, i suffer from severe depression, and i cut myself, sometimes to much and sometimes to deep, i've taken 2 overdoses, but have ended up getting the pills pumped out, i might as well kill myself, but i've decided to go 2 my home country, the Dominican Republic, to do high school over there, i no i shouldn't be trying to escape my problems, but it's better than commiting suicide, wat else can i do? Can someone please help? I dont think im a freak, just misunderstood. Please write back

See a specialist...seriously!

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The other nite me and my boyfriend got "comfortable." He ate me out, but soon after i started bleeding. it wasnt my period because i already had it. whats wrong?
*lyss*

hmm...that's a good question! I have never heard of that happening to anyone. Spotting is something I have heard of that occurs in between your periods (or can possibly happen) shouldn't be too worried about it tho!

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HOW THE HELL DO YOU KNOW ALL OF THIS SHIT???? NOBODY WANTS TO SLEEP WITH YOU!!!! THANKS PLEZ GET BACK TO ME ON THAT ASAP!!!!

Mark

A lil' thing called experience... ♥

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ok i know im not ready to have sex NOW but i dont know if i want to wait until marriage either..i mean what do you guys think?

a part of me says

"hey who knows if your husband will even be a virgin..then its kind of pointless that you waited..and besides if you wait until your married, thats the only guy your going to have sex with .."

then again anothher part of me says "sex would be more special if you waited to have it with your husband"

any input?

sex..it's an evil but yet great three letter word. it's soley your personal choice whether or not you wait. follow your heart!

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The first time you jacked a guy off or gave a guy head or anything, did you feel like you was doing it wrong? I haven't did that with a guy yet but I'm afraid that when I do, I'm going to be doing it wrong. Did you feel like that?

♥ it all comes natural but I will admit that I know what you are talking about "doing it wrong" there's really no -:wrong:- way to do it really...just when you are doing oral things watch your teeth, don't bite!

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I have heard some rumors about you not being a virgin anymoreou would so I figured you would know a few things...

1) does it hurt?
2) what types of pregnancy preventions can be used?
3) do you need to go to the OBGYN?
4) what does "giving head" mean?

Thanks! I was just wondering a few of these ?'s for my future knowledge =)

Oh yeah, I'm 13 by the way if that helps any!

♥ ha, let me get some shit straight first all these rumors about me aren't really rumors because well yeah I'm a virgin anymore to be honest with you but all the other shit that people say is getting on my nerves! =) I'm a very nice girl until you piss me off like some of these people have done...To answer your questions now that I got that stuff off my chest 1)The 1st time yes but for about 10 seconds...you might think oh 10 seconds, I can handle that but shiiit it's the most painful thing I have ever encountered! 2) Birth Control Pills, Condoms *duh*, Diaphragms, Spermicidal Gels, Foams, etc. 3) It's probably a good idea after or before your first time because if you aren't wanting to get pregnant then you can be put on some form of birth control to prevent pregnancy occuring plus it's always good toget "checked out" to make sure you are healthy! 4) Gee, you are 13 and wanting to know what "giving head" means...whoa! Pleasing a guy with your mouth "sucking his dick" there's no pretty way to put it...

Hope this helps you out =)

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does sex hurt the 1st time? how bad? plz help

The first time you have sex it hurts like hell, I am not going to lie to you but I'm not trying to scare you either but it does hurt REALLY bad the first time! Although the pain doesn't last long it is still very uncomfortable at first! But, after a few times it doesn't hurt at all it starts to feel really good! Hope this helps =)

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