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ok well sometimes during class theres this really hott girl in my class and i get a massive erection and sometime i wear basketball shorts....and sometimes when the teacher calls me up to there desk i still ahve the boner and i walk up there and since i dont have any pockets to put my hands down to keep my boner from showing it just kinda sticks out in plain sight..i tell people its just the way my pants are made but they dotn believe me and sumtimes the boner lasts all threw class and by the tim ei know it the bells rung so i have to go out in the hall with it...people look at me weird and sometimes they try and grab it and when lunch rolls around and i have to stand in the line the person in front of me keeps telling me to stop poking them and i say its not my fault...and on my way to my lunch table i turn around and knocked sum kids drink off his tray with it i mean i cant help if i have a huge massive erection that is just so big i cant handle it and one time i didnt know my fly in my pants were open and it popped out and i was walking around with my wang stickin outa my pants and people jsut stare at it....idk if this is normal for a boner to last all day but should i jsut tape it to my leg or something??? or maybe i could just stick it in your ass and walk behind you all day but idk if anyone would notice? so if you have any advice on why my boner lasts so long and what to do with it please tell me!!!!!

well i dont think this is a serious question.... but its deff. not normal.

what you need to do is get your self a girl. jackoff and dont fantasize about that hott girl.

-emily

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would you ever have sex at this age?

no. and i dont plan to. im waiting ATLEAST until im 18. theres just no point right now. i need to enjoy being THIS age, and that dosnt include having sex.

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i am masterbating more than 5 times a day is this wierd?(im a guy)

wellllllll. you may want to cut down a little bit. times a day is plenty. lol but maybe your just a horny guy, nothing bad about it. but cutting down little bit will help the times you do jack of feel better !

-emily

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I'm a virgin. I thought I would start out with that.

I am 15 years old and I masturbate sometimes. But the thing is, after I do it, I feel really guilty and stop and don't do it for about a month.

It feels good when it's happening but after, I feel sick to my stomach.

I have never had a boyfriend and I'm not sexually active at all besides masturbating.

People say it's normal but it's not really publically accepted for teenage girls.

I just want to know if it's normal how I feel.

i think every one feels that way, like if someone finds out they will think your a slut, you feel like its wrong? well its not its tottaly normal and its just accepetd more among guys than girls because guys are expected to. you just have to accpet that its ok and move on ! your not doing anything wong!!

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how old should you be before having sex.

i think ATLEAST 17, you knwo when you are ready but if you feel that tehre is any pressure into having sex then wait a while, you cant change your past, and you cant change things you may regret. im not trying to talk you out of it but you knwo the risks and all the opions all over the world about kids having sex, so mkae your choice and make sure that its the right choice for you
hope i helped!
much

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i just started fingering myself and yesterday i was bleeding out of it. is this bad

maybe your on your period, you may have cut your self w/ you finger nail, if you did it may get infected if your nails were dirty, other wise , i dont think that its serious, i just think that it was menstral blood, if you re seriously concerned, try to find a doctor chat room , that way you dont have to tell your parents that ytou fingeryourself!!! GOOD LUCK
-em-

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hey when im making out i dont know where to put my hands. face or ass or what? and i want to know how to rub up on a girl i know u put your hand in her shirt but what do u do from there

dont go straight for her boobs... then its like all you want is to feel her up ......start like on her face and then make your way down
good luck
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-em-

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ok so i think my parents produced me by having **sex** but im really not for sure. all my friends laugh at me while i pick my nose and i really want to know why!! but my question to you is how do you have sex? because i want to know how to have sex but i dont know how to have sex, and i want to know how to have sex and i would really like your advice... please help me bc im desperate for these answers!!

is this a real question?!!?!?!

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do girls like guys who shave there dick?

depends on the girl....if its wayyy to hairy... i think thats a turn off! lol keep it "groomed" lol hope i helped
love/advice
*emily*

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Okay well im 13 and my boyfriends 18. We have been dating for quiet some time now... about 3 years. We have sex about every other day, but PROTECTED! Hes AWESOME! but im ready to bring a baby into my life! and he says hes ready and comitted! what do you think im turning 14 in 5 days so its better than being 13 and having a baby! p.s. dont be a fool rap ur tool!

you are TOO YOUNG....even if you think your ready YOU ARE NOT....its not easy raising a baby..plus your parnet swoul dlike KILL you

i hate to tell you this but my friends cousin was like you...she had a baby and her guy left her and now she is at her parents trying to get throyugh life......
think sbout it...if you have a baby... you will never be able to go party in college and in high school.....staying up all night like every night for your baby...and you cannt do any thing bad or your baby will ollow your example....
i fyou really want a baby...wait ATLEAST until your 16 or 17!!!
GOOD LUCK
love/advice
*emily*

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ok wen i am in mi room i lyk pu t a stripping gshow on in mi room by myself. and wen i am at school or sumpin i am really she an dall mi friends think i am a goodie too-shoes. how can i make mi friends not think i am a goodie too shoes???
help!!!!!! ill rate u a 5 just 4 helpong me

i cant understand a word your saying!

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what is a blow job exactly?

that would be sucking a guys dick
love/advice
*emily*

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when do guys start getting perverted (like sex) because i have a little brother who is only 12 and he materbates! is this normal?

it is very normal for a guy to be "perverted" at an early age....i have a cousin that is only 8 and he thinks of making out ALLL THE TIME!
-------experts say that if you are 11 or 12 it is UNhealthy to NOT masterbate!
love/advice
*emily*

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Well I've known this guy for about 2 years over the internet. (I met him through a friend who met him 6 months before me) We've talked on the phone, sent letters, pictures, webcams, and all of that, also I've talked to his family and friends so that I know everything he says is true. I've told him that I love him, and he says the same to me. When he gets his liscence, he was going to come and visit me. We only live about 5 hours apart... Yeah, we've had our ups and downs but i still love him, even though we're not "going out" or anything. I know he's had sex once before with his ex girlfriend of a year. I would have sex with him, but I'm still a virgin and I think I'm too young. He's not pressuring me or anything, it's something I wanna do. (Please don't lecture me about it, I know, I also don't need inappropriate vulgar remarks thrown at me for this) He's 16 and I'm 14, but I'll be 15 by the time he gets to visit. I just need some help on what to do to make me feel more open with him. I guess I just feel intimidated because it's not his first time. (It's also not like I've never done anything sexual before, just not sex itself) Please help me out with this.

I think you need to have a couple of real live, face to face dates before having sex. Get to know him even more and be sure that he is THE ONE!! GOOD LUCK
love/advice
*emily*

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well I am only 13 and I have already givin a blow job, gotten drunk, smoked, and done drugs. I am starting to get a bad reputation. what do I do?

well to state the obvious ... STOP DOING ALL THOSE BAD THINGS! you cant change the past..all you can do is try and make the futuer better! you dont waht to do something that you will regeret later in life! stop drinking..giving BJs, soking and get off drugs....if you need it get some help.... GOOD LUCK
love/advice
*emily*

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