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I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, nearly 10 and we havnt had sex!
we have stayed over night with each other and went through all the steps but when we get to the stage of actually having sex he pulls away!
I know he isnt a virgin because I know a girl he has slept with! is it me?
Dear Sexually Fustrated,

I can say that it is very good that both of you have have waited this long to think about sexual intercourse.

Lets look at the age difference you haven't told much about his...

Second it shouldn't make a difference but in a man eyes it could.

Third what kind of atmosphere are you in when that moment hits?

Are there any protection around for both of you to feel comfortable?

Have you and your bf talked about what is going on?

Have you brought up that you know.. he has been with another woman? (not a good idea if so it a total recall for you)

These are just a few questions you may want to ask yourself and help him understand your feelings as well. NEVER bring a past in your present it gives a reason for the other to do as well.

Sex is not the only thing in a relationship remember that sweetie.


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