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Hi, I'm Dannii & I'm Owen and as of today (MAY 15 2006) We're back! & we're waiting to help you. So no matter what the problem or sitch we'll sort you out. Once again.... THE WORLD - WE'RE LISTENING! Look forward to hearing from you soon. Owen n Dannii xx

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if you have sex like less than a week before your period and become pregant will you still have your period for that month?

No you don't have it ... but it isn't impossivle for you to still have tour period while your pergnant!

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Ok, so I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have together for a good solid 7 months. We're sexually active, but trust me when I say that our relationship is about more than just sex. We respect eachother and this is the first relationship I've had that really means something to me. I'm not positive if I'm 'in love' but it sure comes close.
So, we've had sex maybe 8 or 10 times since we lost our virginity to each other a couple months ago. At first, I was totally "I'm ALWAYS going to use protection!" but we've gone a few times without (but we've made SURE to pull out). I know that that there are still SO many risks but I thought we were being careful. Well the more I've been thinking about it (and it's been increasing lately) the more I think I might be pregnant! The thought alone totally freaks me out!! I'm adopted and my birthmother had her first child at age 13 and me at 15 and I've always promised to myself not to follow in her footsteps. I've been researching everything online and I havn't had any of the 'earliest signs of pregnancy' EXCEPT for my missed period which was supposed to come yesterday but I've had missed/late periods before. Apart from that I havn't been bloated or tender anywhere and I don't know if it's just paranoia, but my stomache's been looking a little "poochy" lately. The last time we had unprotected sex was maybe 2-3 weeks ago but again, he pulled out wayy before he came.
I'M FREAKING OUT, PLEASE HELP!!
-kbabe

theres still a possibility of you being pergnant, because before he cums, he leaks 'pre cum' out which is basically the same thing!!
Your missed period may as you say be normal for you, but it may also be because you are stressed or worrying about it ... if your getting up everyday and thinking i have to come on today or im pregnant then you won't because you are stressing yourself over it!!!!
also your stomache could be because your worrying!!
As i have experianced this brfore, i would advise that you try not to worry yourself over it, wait maybe a week or to and if you still havn't come onto your period then go and see a doctor for a pregnancy test!!
Good luck
Dannii x

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How long can you las to take the next day pill?

up to 3 days if your on about the morning after pill ... but the earlier ou take it the more effective it is!!
Owen xx

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13/f

Me and my mom have always had this sort of best-friend sort of relationship instead of a mother-daughter relationship. I didn't tell her everything, but I did tell her enough and wasn't embrassed infront of my friends with her. Infact, I kind of like to "show her off." She's really funny and basically acts like someone my age would act - only 43 and graying hair. But right now everything sort of changed.

A few weeks ago my mom went out on a date (My dad and her are divorced) and she said she would be out a few hours. Dinner, a movie, the basics. So figured it would be a perfect time to.. well, masturbate, I suppose. Only apparantly the date didn't last as long as she expected, and I didn't hear her open the door. And she kind of heard me, since I tend to get kind of loud. I have no idea what she was thinking, I just know that she opened the door to my room and saw me. Then shut the door and didn't talk to me for the rest of the night. After I got dressed I went and found her in the kitchen, and told her that that had been a little awkward, but she didn't say anything or do anything. She just kind of ignored me. And every since then it's been kind of weird, especially since my mom is one of those pre-martial-sex-and-I'm-sending-you-to-a-convent type of people. She's only had sex once, and that was when she "planned" to have me.

Now, instead of feeling all laid back when I'm around her, I keep getting this feeling like she's giving me a dirty look, like she thinks I'm some kind of skank. And actually, I know that she thinks that, because me, being the curious one, listened in on her phone call with her best friend, who my mom told that I was turning into some kind of slut ever since I started going out with my boyfriend, which really isn't true, since I was doing this long before I started going out with him.

I just don't really know how to make things cool between us again. Or how to break the ice so I don't feel like I'm being watched ever second of every day because my mom believes that I'm doing "dirty things."

if your mom is being this immiture then ignore her back!! she has to accept that you are growing up and that she can't controll you forever!! Her beliefs and yours may not be the same, and as far as what she is saying about you to her friend is bang out of order because she is tellinbg everybody what is going on behind closed doors!!
Dannii n owen x

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i have this vibrating massaging thing and i put it down there and it feels wicked good.. and like within a minute i feel like REALLY good but it lasts litterally 5 seconds.. is that an orgasm and is this masturbating? also one more thing, by doing that is that bad? like would it affect my eggs in the ovaries and stuff from the vibration of the massager?

an orgasm is basically when ur at the height of your pleasure so lasting 5 seconds is normal!
yes it is masturbating and no it wont affect you ... masturbating is healthy and a normal part of exploring your body
Dannii & Owen xx

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Okay, I went to my doctor and was prescribed with "Levlen ED"

I want to startusing it now, but i was told to startwhen i get my periods.

I havent had my period for about 5-6 weeks now and i hadnt had sex since january but recently had it on the 19th of this month, i also had sex last night and he thinks the condom broke.

Is there a way i can start using the pill now without having to wait for my period to come? I know if i fell pregnant from a broken condom its not going to fix it, but i just want to start using this pill so my periods get in order :<

im extremely confused and i dont know what to do :<

wait for your period for the morning after pill, if you think the condom split.
if you still havn't come onto your period and are worried, visit your gp for advice
Dannii x

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If the guy tries not to cum during sex and is successful, is there still a possibilty of getting pregnant???

In a word - its a 3 letter one - YES!!!

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