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my boyfriend (16) and i (16) have both explicitly and bluntly expressed to eachother that we'd like to have sex and think we're ready. we have been dating for 6 months and i don't trust anyone in the world as much as i trust him.
there's no way in hell i could ever tell my mom that i wanted to have sex, she'd flip a lid. however, i really want to be careful and don't want to run the risk of becoming pregnant. i'm curious about birth control, is there an over-the-counter brand that i could get without a doctors note?
more importantly, anyone with prior expierience... how were you able to do it and get away with it? (link)
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Me being young the first time I had sex, I can help you out some. First of all I want to say that I dont totally agree with everything, but I am glad to see that two teenagers are being smart and as responsible as you can be about sex. I definately think you should make an appointment at Planned Parent Hood (or another program just like that), where you can recieve birth control, condoms, and the morning after pill.
Also the was I was able to "get away with it", was that my boyfriends parents didnt really care if we were home alone. But just make sure you're really smart about it. The last thing we need is more teenage parents in this world.
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hey there, the other day me and my gf were fooling around, and we've gone too far. both were naked and i was rubbing my penis over her vagina.. but only 1 or 2 times, a very very slight interaction happend. maybe 1 inch in not more and maybe for 5 sec only.. am scared if there was precum there and if that could get her pregnant. am not sure if i ejaculated before we did this. is there a possibilty that she get pregnant ? if i ejaculated before or not ? eventhough she is still virgin and this happend after 15 days from the end of her period. HeLp!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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It is very possible for that to happen. Honestly even if you didnt have a "slight interation" it is still possible if you rubbed your penis against her. Sperm are able to swim, and could very well go into her vagina. Now trust me I am not trying to scare you, but I am trying to educate you. It is possible, but not probable. If she is late on her period though, I would reccomend getting her an at home pregnancy test, or an appointment at an OBGYN office
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is sex at a young age(like 13) a bad idea? (link)
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I don't think its a good idea, i know none of us can stop you but i just want to tell you a story. At 13 my friend thought she was in love with this guy who she was going out with for 2 years and she decided that she should have sex with him. They used protection but the condom ripped and she got pregnant. Not only did she have to deal with being pregnant but her parents also kicked her out of the house and the guy left her. Now she lives in homeless shelter with her baby and her life is a living hell. So just think before you do something stupid -Courtney-
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