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Okay...
I really want to have sex but iam really afraid tha my paretns are going to find out or my friends!
and what if i get pregnant!
i mean i will use a condom but you can still get pregnant but all my other friends never got pregnant when they had sex but could and it would ruin my whole life!
i need help PLEASE!

~Sandy~

I know this is something that you probably don't want to hear...but my advice to you is to wait. I can say that from personal experience. I kinda' thought like you did, you know "my friends have unprotected sex all the time and they never get pregnant so I'll use protection and I definately won't get pregnant. Guess what? I got pregnant. My mom found out and made me have a abortion which is something I am absolutley against, even to this day. The decesion to have sex wasn't a decesion I was ready to make because even now at 26 years old, I am so tormented by what happened to me when my mom made me feel like I didn't have a choice. If you have a steady boyfriend and just want to turn up the passion, there's PLENTY of other things you can do besides have sex. I definately do not advise just having sex with some random guy just because you think your ready. You will regret it later, that is surely a promise. The things you can do besides sex is: Kissing, exploring each others bodys, massage. (If your in a committed relationship then maybe mutual masturbation or oral) So I hope I've helped even if it was just a little bit. Good Luck in making the right decesion...I wish I had.

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is it better to have sex with lights on or off? dont give me the "it depends, or either" just sayy wich is better. lights on, or lights off.

I say lights off. This way you can concentrate more on each other and being caught up in the moment instead of worrying over your body and what it looks like in different positions.

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