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16/f me and my boyfriend have been dateing for 5 months now and i really love him i think he might be the "one" and you guys probly think its silly or w.e but i love him. Anyway weve been talking about have sex but we also have troble on finding a place because were always serounded by people.aka(family) ANd when we have sex i wanna know if ill know when/if im going to orgasm. my boyfriend keeps saying how hes going to suck at sex and struggle. but he fingers me most of the time when we can be alone and ive bleed twice. does that also mean it wont hurt as much when we do. im just really confused. of corse where going to use a condom. and idk if i should get birth control because i herd it makes you fat and well frankly im already fat as it is. and i dont wanna get fatter. i want this to be the best protected experience of my life. how do i make that happen?! (link)
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I know where your coming from... when he fingered you bleed down there, correct? That means you won't bleed when he sticks it in you because " he popped your cherry" and it won't hurt as much because when he fingers you, he's loosen the vagina... and if you want to take birth control then you can but there are side affects like you said, cramping, bleeding, gaining a little weight.. But its at the beginning but it will go away... and sometimes the first time isn't always so good haha believe me, but you guys can always keep trying and it will get SO much better, just make sure you always use a condom.. And as for places, go to a park at night make it romantic with a nice blanket etc.. When its dark out and no one can see you... I hope I helped, good luck!
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