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Gender: Female Age: 24 Member Since: March 30, 2006 Answers: 38 Last Update: June 7, 2006 Visitors: 4144
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hello f 31
i need new ideas on how to spice up are sex life in bed , instead of the same things we always do ! i ran out of creative was to making love , (toys , food or etc ) plz help anyother ideas ! (link)
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First of all don't be afraid to ask your partner for some suggestions. But there are many things you can use. Chocolate syrup, carmel, whip cream, cherries, strawberries, ice, honey, frozen bananas. As for toys just go look around in a toy shop see what is available and what you think you and your partner might enjoy. Handcuffs, blindfolds, candle wax, french ticklers. You can also search on the web for online toy stores. There you can look at the toys and most of them will tell you about the toys, what they are made out of and what they do. I hope all of this helps you and good luck.
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Age: 15, gender: female
ok, so.... I've been dating my bf, sam for almost 3 months, but I'm not sure if I wannabe with him anymore. I broke up with him once already a month ago but got back together with him after a few days bacause i felt really bad and i kind missed him. The reasons I broke up with him in the 1st place have only gotten worse though, he tends to be controlling and he's jealous of any other guy i hang out with. Not nly that, but I'm starting to have feelings for my friend Patryk. You see, Patryk has a gf right now, but they're on a rocky part of thir relationship like me and sam. He's even talking about breaking it off with her to me. He's a really great guy though and I'd love to be with him, but I'm not sure if i should break up with my boyfriend to try and be with him. Especially because my bf has a suicidal history and last time i broke up with him he went all suicidal on me and everything and I just don;t wanna have to worry about that. Am I crazy to try and take this risk or should i just stay with my current bf and deal with it? ...cuz he does have some really great moments. (link)
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First of all you are really right to want to break up with him. You shouldn't have to deal with someone being that controlling. But don't break up with him because of patryk. Do it because it is what is better for you. And because he has suicidal tendencies I would have an adult there with you when you break up with him. Just to be safe. You need to make sure that an adult and maybe a friend you can trust knows what is going on. But never stay with someone just because they are suicidal and you are worried about what they will do. You can not control anything a person says or does. Everyone chooses their own actions and their actions does not make it your responsibility. If you stay with your bf things might only get worse for you. And you are too young to let a boy control you in the way that he is. I really hope this helps you and good luck.
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