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okay so im a virgin but my boyfriend isn't... I want to have sex with him im just worried that his dick will be to big and wont fit... (im very tight) we cant even fit two fingers in and he is kinda big.... what if it doesn't fit then what do I do? (link)
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The vagina is extraordinary.
It accommodates a many things..
If you're not over-fantasizing your b/f's penis, then, you're main problem isn't having sex...
You problem is the "prep for sex"...
If your a virgin and.....
If his dick is HUGE....
then penetration IS NOT THE WAY TO GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO!!!!!!!!!!!!
You need dick flick clit teletubby thons...
before the whole sex thing..
Ease on down the road Dorothy said (Wizard of Oz)
Not "Blow that motherf**ka up! (Set It Off).
I hope you get it...
Take your time Doll
Good Luck
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Lately I've just been feeling reeally depressed. But there are reasons. I'm truthfully not good enough for anyone. There's nothing good about me and I can't do anything. I've been giving up on everything because I can't succeed in anything. I've even been cutting my arms which I swore to myself I would never do. When I try to talk about it I just get more depressed and it's just like well nobody knows what I'm going through anyways so why bother. When I'm with people I act totally different from what I feel. I don't like letting people know what I'm feeling, because I'm constantly depressed. I've even considered suicide. >_<
So can someone please help me stop this feeling? I don't want to take anti-depressants because then I'd have to tell my mom and I don't want her freaking out. I don't want to cut anymore, it just feels like a last resort. ): (link)
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We all go through depression at various points in our lives. It happens quite often and it quite natural. So I hope you feel comfort in knowing that you are not alone. Nor will you ever will be. Unless you make it that way. And I was gonna take the easy way out and provide more sympathy and comfort but I decided against it. I believe that you recently lost something very close to you. Whether it was a person, an animal, a job, a lover, friend, etc... in any case.. it provided you with self worth. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Thriving off the surrounding environment can do wonders! However, whatever it holding you up is now gone and you may feel a void within. But now Imma be rather blunt especially because I can relate (not as far as you have gone but I know that if my attitude was like yours then it could of lead to the point of where you are.) You have alot of help, loved ones, and resources around. Get off your self pity train and make something happen. To say that your "good for nothing"? Is retarded and plain insane! You should believe "everything happens for a reason" and the follow up to that is that "God or whomever you believe will not place more weight on you than you can carry"....and it seems to me that you are only carrying yourself *in the most detrimental, self destructive, negative way humanly possible!" Just because you don't your babysitter anymore. I'm not sure how old you are but unfortunately.... YOU HAVE TO GROW UP AND BE YOUR OWN SUPPORT BEAM! LISTEN TO ME>>>>>>>>>> YOU ARE KILLING YOURSELF WITH YOURSELF BY YOURSELF>>>> I also suggest that you go seek group help. There are many groups for depressed and cutters waiting for people like you. Its quite alright the be withdrawn.. or have other people talk bad about you... but you need to "STOP SAYING THESE THINGS ABOUT YOURSELF!" how can you fabricate good fortunes and happiness if you *technically and internally" always against them? Hope this helps and I actually would appreciate a follow-up. Best Regards... because whether you believe it or not... you DESERVE THEM!
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hi, ok well i was just wondering... i was just talking to my bf and im 14 and hes 16 and we have been best friends for like 2 years and everything and he and i makeout a lot whenever we see each other (like once a week) and i was asking him how far we would go right now in our relationship (3 months) he said 2nd (touching a girl's breast) and we have gotten close he has touched me through my bra once and my shirt one other time but im very protective of that one of the two times he did without asking and he said he was very sorry and promised not to again. anyway im moving in June so i asked what about when i leave how far? our relationship would be about 5 months. he said a hj. i was very surprised because ya hes horny like very other guy but he tries really hard to be good. he has set limits and wont put himself in a position like being home alone with me because he doesnt trust himself. hes very responcible. but hes also a 16 yr old guy. well he would be-hes turning 16 in May. yay he turns 16 and gets a hj lol
so first off if i wanted to give him a hj is that normal (i kno everyone says do what your comfortable with but would u say most 16 yr old guys have gotten a hj) the thing is im only 14 tho. a freshman. hes also a freshman but hes much older im younger and hes older. he and i are deeply in love tho so it wont be like i do that with every guy or w/e.
it would both of our firsts. he said yes because it would be somthing to remember each other by.
also dont worry cause i know i wont because im not comfortable with that. my bf doesnt know that i wont but i do. i just had some questions about if i did want to.
and i know i dont have to i mean he didnt even ask i said how far would you let us go.
thanks :) (link)
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First off.... I'm rofl... Not at you or your situation but the memories of my own. Secondly, in my opinion... if he's has the ability to tell you with confidence what each base is, I would naturally think he done more than he's letting you know... and yall may be "really really feeling each other" but yall are "not" deeply in love either.. not to say its impossible either or because ya'll to young, thats up in the air. However, as you get older, you'll realized that being in love, brings great happiness and joys, but it'll only come thru after you overcome great pain... together ok? I will say just make sure you getting the whole story about your b/f cuz it sounds like later down the line you'll find out hes "ommitting" some of dhis experience from you to make you feel comfortable with him.. (Not saying its guaranteed to be the case, I just want you to be aware before you make any defintie decisions that's all. He's probably a good guy, but like you even said... he a 16 year old boy) We all wanna believe everything our mates tell us, but this is not always reality. I agree with doing what you feel comfortable with, without him pressuring you and making you feel obligated to anything. In regards to your question.. about it being normal and all?... Who is anyone to tell you what is normal or not? Do what you feel and move at your own pace. You live and you learn. Good Luck and Best Wishes
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is there any like cute teasing things to do to your boyfriend along the lines of kissing? (link)
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Ahh.. I love the art of kissing. Not all people deserve to be seduce but we women are the best at it. There are different types of kisses and pressurs to kissing. Don't apply these techniques to all guys, just the ones you truly wanna seduce lol. Well let's see...
1.) Stand above him while he's sitting down. Look passionately into his eyes and lower yourself to gently kiss his forehead with purely puckered lips. Then straddle him and sit on his lap. (He'll love this) Then closes his eyes with your fingertips (softly). Kiss right in between his eyes and then follow up by tracing his lips with the tip of your tongue. (No spit and make sure your breath is right too lol) Tilt his head back slightly and suck gently on his chin. (If your doing it right his eyes will stay closed the entire time or roll to the back of his head)... trace the contours of his neck with your tongue and make a path right back to his lips.. but stop short.. right in front of his lips and look him into his eyes.. See if he takes the intiative to kiss you. If he doesn't, kiss him deeply with puckered lips with no tongue and then get up sensually. If your heated as he's gonna be.... use your imagination from there on... I know this will help..
I would suggest more techniques, but they belong to me. lmao
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