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Q: Ok alot of people i know think that i'm not a virgin ( even my own family). I haven't had sex and so what i know alot about sex. and they think i've given oral too.which i have not.i tell them over and over again but thyey don't belive me. And ruemers are already goin around that i'm a ho. What can i do to make them belive me?
Do you dress provacatively? if you do, stop. Tell your mom to take you to the gyno- the doc can check to see if your hymen is broken which usually only happens during sex (unless you shove tampons up there really hard) and she can tell your mom that youre still a virgin. Hopefull she can eventually trust you about oral too. You can't do anything about school really- if you cock tease the boys, theyll think youre a slut. If you dress skimpy, the girls will think youre a slut. So be good, don't worry so much about other people. Theyll forget about it eventually if you act right. kids can be cruel, good luck hun.

Q: ok so theres this boy Randy Arms, well i had sex with him 4 years ago an then he moved away. i never told him i loved him but i do and i wanna be with him. now, this year hs brother goes to my school and i looked his name up inthe teachers book and got Randy's phone#. i tried calling him but the line was diconected. after i thought about it im sort of glad he didnt pick up b/c i wouldnt know what to say.what would you do if u had a long lostlover boy / girl? please help!! if your good ill give you a 4 or 5.
Ask his brother casually what he's been up to lately, and maybe you guys can talk a little bit and find out where he is now. If you don't try harder you might regret it hun. take a chance!

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