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I am 18 years old and I will be 19 on the 3rd of December. I am also pregnant and still with the father. We have been together for more than a year and a half and plan to be married before April 2005.

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Okay. My boyfriend and I are thinking about going for the whole oral sex thing...and something about the whole subject really weirds me out. Like, I can't imagine giving a guy a blowjob, but it weirds me out even more to think of him going down on me.
For background, we've been together over 11 months, we've had sex, and we've usually kinda skipped over the oral issue. If it matters, I'm 17 and he's 18. I know I should just wait 'til I'm comfy with the whole idea, but I don't think I'll be comfy with it until I figure out what it is that's weirding me out. Anyone have any ideas?

I used to think that oral sex and just sex in general was absolutely disgusting. But let me tell you that your mind can change.
The only way to really get past the issue is to try it once, and if its not at all "comfy" then just let your partner know that you no longer want to continue. He should understand.

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ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?!

Nothing is wrong with you, hun. It can hurt for a few more times before it ever feels normal or good.
I hurt for the first few times as well but now it is pretty much normal. But your body will go through a series of changes that may lead to good feeling sex or painful sex...
Truthfully it all kind of depends what time of the month you are at(like during ovulation, period, in between...).
Don't worry it is totally normal.

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