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I'm sorry if this is a little long...
There are three of us, me and my two friends that I'm going to call Keri and Amber.
The last few months Keri and Amber always are partners with each other for everything and leave me out, they never wait for me, and then always ignore me in many of the classes we have together. I took half an hour to tell Kari how I felt about it on the phone last night and today Amber came up to me and asked me why I was mad at them. I got really angry because I spent half an hour explaining why I was upset, and then she says to only remembers half of it, and I started yelling at her, because it doesn't seem like she cares about how I feel.
My question is what should I do about it, and am I overracting about it?
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Wow. Well what i would do is find another group to hang out with because real friends wouldnt do that. also it is hard in a group of three because it is an odd number but i still think that they should have alternated with eachother. Just from now on if they talk to you, ignore them. and dont even look at them and just give them a taste of their own medicine. i hope this helps!
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shes really emotional all the time ive been her best friend since kindergarten i feel a total responsibility over her instead of friendship, she bugs me all the time and all my best friends really dont like she makes me so depressed that well ive done some bad things to myself im tired of being her second mom and anytime i try to do things with other friends without her she flips out i dont wanna lie to her and i dont wanna make it a big deal by completley ditching her, how do i nicely silently disapear form her life? (link)
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What i would do is write her a letter and have it say this,
Dear ___,
Lately you have been bothering me in many ways. First you flip out when I dont include you in my plans, and i feel like you get too emotional on me. I really hope that you can change this a little because i already have enough stress as it is and when a friend flips out and gets emotional on me, it feels like everything is all my fault. Please if you could, Make it a little easier!
sincerely,
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or something like that just expressing how you feel so tell me how it goes and i hope i helped!
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