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okay..my friend.she gets treated soo bad..and her boyfriend just dumped her and seh cried for like a whole day..and other people..there so mean to her..and im just bout sick of it..i hate seeing her like this, and now..sehs saying that seh cuts herself..and seh does all this stuff..and ive tried talking to her..she just says that everythings messed up and will never be the same..she just does all of this over a boy that doesnt like her..ive talked to her plenty of times..i just dont kno what to say to her anymore..what should i do? (link)
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I've been through that. Even worse, it was because he cheated on me with my best friend before he dumped me, and i didn't know about either of them. What you need to do is reassure her, and talk to her about everything, even if she doesn't want to listen. About the cutting, if she doesn't stop you need to get someone she trusts or someone who is responsible to talk to her and help her get through that, maybe even get a counselor, because that is a HUGE problem. Also, make her promise she won;t do that again. Take her out to the mall, parties, and chat up with some guys she could be interested. You could also arrange a group outing to take her mind off everything.
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i have a problem with trusting my friends. i know it sounds weird but its tru. i mean like i know i can trust them sometimes but then they have times when they are so hyper they tell everyone everything about me and wut i have told them. wut do i do? i dont think i should trust them anymore but i want to. (link)
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I know how it is, a couple of my friends are like that. Talk to them, and tell them how you feel. They're your friends, they should listen and be there for you, and trust is a huge part of a friendship. And if they STILL continue to tell your secrets and private info, then just find someone you can talk to. Maybe a sister, relative, someone you can turn to.
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