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Q: 16/f.
i have known this kid lets call him ethan for a very long time. like almost 10 years. and well me and him were really good friends for a while. Well we used to be at least. We were closest freshman year. and now we barely even talk. and it feels so awful because he was like my best guy friend. and he used to care and like now it just doesnt feel like he cares anymore. I mean our friendship was so great and now its like nothing. I just dont know if there is anything i can do to like make the friendship the way it used to be. any ideas on what to do? and i really still care about him, but i feel like he wouldnt even notice if i was gone. thanks in advance. =)
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I had the same situation. But I didnt know him for that long and you guys were probably closer and i know the feeling sucks so it must really suck you for . But the thing I did was I talked to him and i told him everyone on my mind about our friendship and how much its changed and we talked it over. Right now were just starting to speak again so if things dont change right away dont give uup hope , you should just tell him how you feel how everything and obviously if he is a true friend , it will change and tell him u want to hang out and stuff too
good luck
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Q: im a 13 year old female.
me and my best friend have been fighting alot lately and we have been getting on eachothers nerves alot, and when we are at church, we basically ignore eachother until i have to take her home and i really dont want to loose her, she is my bestie and i consider her my 2nd sister. and if we like werent friends anymore, then my real sister would be upset cuz my sister only likes my best friend, she hates all of my other friends and i just dont know what to do anymore, but this kinda happened to my sister and her best friend and they are still friend but the thing that they did was they too a break from eachother and didnt hang out for about a week and they didnt really talk or anything and now they are just fine but they know now to not hang out as much as they use to and im not sure if thats what me and my bestie should do.
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I used to go through this with my friends. Actually i still do. Especaily with my besties. I figured out than i get annoyed and we tend to fight a lot when were together for to long. Maybe you should talk to her about taking a break. If you guys are true friends everything will be okay.
I took a break from my bestfriends because in the summer we were together a lot. I felt really refreshed afterwards and things went back to normal
i hope i helped
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Q: My friend, Stephanie, called my friend, Ellie, a b*tch behind her back. Ellie asked me if Stephanie called her that and I said "I think so" (it happened weeks ago, so I didn't really remember). Now Ellie's parents did something and Stephanie is in trouble. Stephanie yelled at me and said that it was all my fault. Did I do the right thing by telling Ellie what Stephanie said?
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You did the mature thing with answering honestly but not rudely in a way that would have hurt stephanie. stephanie is probably looking for someone to blame besides her self. After all it is her fault she did say that.
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Hey im Christina. Im 15 and I am not new to advicenators. Ive been on this site for a while now but when my computer crashed i lost my account so i created a new one. I love to help people out and i love getting questions -- so ask awayy =]
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Gender: Female Location: az Age: 15 Member Since: November 14, 2006 Answers: 7 Last Update: December 16, 2006 Visitors: 2520
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