Hi my name is Chelsey and I've been through a lot in my life. I live in Branford Connecticut, and I'm 13 years old. Even though I'm young that doesn't mean that I haven't been through a lot. Everyday is a struggle, and i like to feel that i'm not alone and I wish that someone was there to help me get through the tough times and confort me. Thats why I like to help. Also ever since i was little I was usually the advice giver to my friends and I always gave them good advice so I hope to help more people in the world. When i grow up I hope to be a councelor for teens because teens usually go through the most dramatic things. Also just to let you know I used to cut for you cutters out there and I've done a lot of other things. I know that these days a lot of teens think self harm is normal and theres nothing wring with it but it is TOTALLY wrong and that why I'm here to try to help some of you people stop. I've helped a lot of people in the past. Also I've been through a lot of family roblems since I was little. Including my dad and other family member's making me feel like nothing. I've also been through a lot of unwanted sexual contact. So for you boys and girls out there that have been raped or moulested I'm here for you. As most teens know a lot of depression problems are caused by relationship problems and I've been through more of them than I can count, I know how hard they are and how much you cry and cry you can't bring them back. Or you just don't know what to do when theres a problem. Also my mom she has a disease that makes her not feel good at all, all the time,and there is NO cure for it. So i kind of know how it feels not to have a mom because she's not like normal mom's. So if you need advice i'm happy to give you some to the best ability that I can.
~*Thank you*~
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Location: branford,CT
Age: 13
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I just found out that a girl at school, I knew already that we werent the best of friends called me Rude, annoying, and bitchy while talking to one of my closest friends.
History of us,
we were never friends but we never were mean 2 eachother. Last year I had mono and was on medications, I had a short temper and she or someone else sai somthing thing that mad me mad or annoyed me. She said "you have changed alot since you were sick. nit for the best either. You are mean." I said stuff back 'this is the real me i didnt change. get used 2 it." i fell bad now but i didnt know what i was saying. now i think she hates me and I want to apologize but I dont want to seem like a goody goody who wants everyone to like them.
what do i do. please help me!
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I really think you should appologize to her because even if she doesn't accept atleast you did the right thing. But i really think thats she'll be friend with you agian if you just explain that your different now, all the other things that you said wasn't really you speaking it was the medication. Well i hope everything works out ok!!!!!
luv,
~*cHeLlY*~
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I NEED SERIOUS HELPPPPPPPP!
My friend and I recently had a huge fight.
She started to spread rumors about me.
HALF OF THE PEOPLE at school want to murder me.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Wow that really sucks!!!! There should be communication yeah i know you really feel like freaking out but try to stay calm and just talk to her and see whats going on. You never know it might help!!! Well thats all i have!
luv,
~*cHeLlY*~ & ~*lEx*~
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WILL RATE HIGH my ex boyfriend is really worrying me. i broke up with him because he started to make me think that all he wanted from me was sex. im 14 hes 15. he was asking me if was a virgin (which i am), if i would leave him a sexy message on his messge maching, and he wasnt actualy talkin to me on the fone, it was all thr txt msgs.when i tried to talk to him he wouldnt pic up. and i cant stand relatiotships where there is no communication and he knew that was important to me. i went out with him once before and he broke up with me "because he thought i didnt like him" which didnt make much sense because i always made the first moves, he seemes like a whole different person now. anyway, i knew he drank occasionally and what i thoguht used to do some drugs. but i dont know, he says he has an anger problem and that he's going to get homeschooled. i think that would be worse for him. i know he has problems at home, but his parents are still marrried. he hurts himself, like he beats himself up and i dont understand. i dont think its anger problems i think he nees counsoling. i still care about him and i dont want him to do this to himself. i dont know what i should do...i dont want him to hurt himself (link)
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I really think that you should tell his parents about what he's doin to himself because thats definately not anger problems that more like mental problesm....sorry but i really think he should get some help for that there is no need to hurt yourself. Or just talk to him and ask him why he does that to him self if you need to talk you can e-mail me at silver6@usadatanet.net ! Hope i helped a little!
luv,
~*cHeLlY*~
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I have a "friend" that is sort of mean to my other friends. She excludes them and is very posesive of me. She gets angry when me and my 2 other friends do things together, without her. My other friends basically hate her, but i don't want to break the friendship off because i don't want to make an enemy. I hat being stuck in the middle!!!
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I say you talk to that friend and tell her to be so aggressive torwards your other friends. It's not a big deal that you do things with your other friends. It's not like there going to replace you or something. But if she really doesn't listen be serious and tell her you guys need some tme apart.Good luck!
luv,
~*cHeLlY*~
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I think I have sort of created some sort of irreversible obsession over my best friend. I'ts not that I cant live with out her. It just that I refuse to do the simplest thing without her consent or at least knowledge. In some sort of twisted way, I cant think without her.... Shes sort of that one thing that completes me in almost all aspects of my life. I'ts scares me day by day because i feel that such a good thing is always lost... Im paranoid about losing one of the only things that makes my life, worthwhile.... Praying for her everynight doesnt seem enough and even when I'm sleeping next to her...I sleep with the deep penetrating thought that She wont be there when i wake up.... My question to you is this.. Is this a friendship or some sort of ill obsession?????
Please help me?????
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I wouldn't call it an obsession, but i would calm down a little on the parnoia. I don't think you should be as worried as you are about her. Like yea it's great to pray for her and such but not be wondering if she'll be alive when you wake up next to her. But i think you guys are REALLY REALLY REALLY tight which is awesome i wish i had a friendnship like that. Well i hope i answered your question!
luv,
~cHeLlY*~
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ok so my birthday was like a month ago..i started planning my sweet 16 but couldnt do it the date i wanted because one of my good friends is having hers that day. I was ok with that and decided to wait until June because my aunt who works there said i can get a deal this one weekend. I checked with everyone to make sure i didnt interfere..my one good friend is having hers the day after mine..im having mine on a friday. Today she asked me if i can change mine because she was talking to her mom and her mom doesnt like the idea because she said it will be hard for people to go to to parties in one weekend. She asked me to change mine because she cant change hers. I was like WHTA? her dad works at the firehouse (thats where shes havin hers) and i know she could probably change it if she feels that way. Every weekend there seems to be a sweet 16..i have to wait 2 1/2 months after my actual bday to have my party..so i think ive sacrificed enough. I dont mean to sound stubborn or anything..its just im sick of accomadating others...plus i can get a good deal on the catering that friday night..and i have double header softball games on saturdays..between everyone elses parties,plays for the schools,and talent shows,this is my open date and i dont wanna change! do you agree? how should i say this to her (link)
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hey just tell her the truth explain to her that you don't really feel like changing and also it's not just that it's also that you can't because your so busy. and it's not fair because you have already sacrificed you bday party. Also ask her why would it be hard for people to go to 2 parties in one weekend?They would probably like it. I know i wouldn't mind!!!Well i think you should just still have your party the day you planned. i hope i helped!
luv,
~*cHeLlY*~
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