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Okay so i have these two best friends..and we`re all best friends. One of them changed completely just for her boyfriend and then when the other one pointed it out, the first one got pissed off and now they`re not friends anymore. Now, one of them deosnt care that theyre not friends anymore but the other one does, and she keeps telling me about how unhappy she is. Ugh, i have no idea what to do. I want them to be friends again, but i dont know wtf im supposed to do about it.
Sorry if this is long and confusing, but oh well.

tell the friend that doesnt care that ur otha friend that does care..they shoiuld try talkin to each other nd work things out. nd tell them that u dont wanna be put in the middle!

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Hi im a 15/f. i love my friend to pieces but i *cannot stand* her family. her mom is constantly putting food in front of me and i feel weird telling her i'm full cuz everyone else is eating still and sometimes they give me weird looks. and after being over her house a while i get a really bad stomach ache. and her little brother is really cute but he hangs all over me and it gets so annoying. she just thinks hes cute. this website is like my last resort lol im so fed up with going over her house. her parents are strict too so its not like she goes over my house a lot either :-/ please help me!!

try talkin to her nd tell her how its gettin to a point where u cant take it no more nd tell her to talk to her brother about not being all around u nd on u wen u go over..
..hope i helped..

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I really really like this guy but when he found out my fealings he sed he wanted me only as a friend cuz he wanted to get someone "fresh" when he gets in high school... but i've liked him since 2 grade or even befor that! he's really one of my best buds.i know how he feels but if i see him with someone else.. omg i dunno what i'll do! is there some way i can get him to like me?.. some way he could change his mind!?? help please!

well u cant make some1 like u but u can try gettin closer to him nd show him what a great person u are nd maybe he'll like u bac =P
-hope i helped =)

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me and my friend has been friends for a long time. And she was always has a attitude and makes me look like the bad girl... I really dont want to loose a friend but i am getting really sick of her wat should i do?

talk to her nd tell her how u feel nd that u dont want to lose her nd that u really care bout her but u dont want her to make u seem as da bad person!

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hey well i really like ur column nd uve answered some of my questions be4 nd u really helped me thanks britt =)

aww!! ur welcome =) ..if ya eva need to ask me sumthing ill answer it for u nd ill try the best to help! =P

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i have this friend(lets call her mangan)and latly (especial last year) we have gotten into a lot of fights (not physical, but like over stupid thisngs) like 1 time when i didnt get her some shoe! but anyways we have been frineds since second grade and it is now eighth. she is makin new friedns and so am i, and i am afaidi will lose her, and that is the last thing i want to happen :( i just gotn know wut to do cuz i love her to death and always will please help me!

signed,

tryin to hold on!

(dont deleat cuz i really need adviuce!)

heyy well u should try talkin to her nd tell her how u feel nd that u dont wanna loose her, also try not to fight over little things, just try talkin to her nd she should understand u..
well good luck =)

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i recently moved to a new town and dont know any kids here im going to a new highschool starting 9th grade in 2 weeks but im scared i wont make any friends...is it easy to make friends and meet people there???thanks

yeahhh you'll be able to make friends!! there'll be alot of ppl there, dont worry bout not makin friends u will. everything will be just fine you'll see =)

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one of my friends has a problem with inviting themselves over to my house what can i tell her that wont hurt her feelings but will let her her know that i will invite her when i want her over?

just tell her that she shouldnt just invite herself over nd that ull tell her or ask her to come wen u want her over, she should understand

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ok so theres this new girl at school whos really cool and stuff and she invited me to her birthday party coming up this weekend and i dont know what to get her and when i ask her she just says "oh you dont have to get me anything" which means get me somthing but im not gonna tel you what i want got anyideas for what i should get her?

try giving her a nice bracelt or necklace or just give her money in a card so that she can pick out w.e she wants to get =)

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me and my friends have a so called"friend" named jodi.weve known her for like half a year.at first she seemed cool.but then she got really annoying.she started acting like a bytch and only do what she would wanna do.so should we keep talking behind her baq and acing like were her friend.or confront her and tell her we dont wanna be her friend
13/f

you needa confront her nd tell her how you feel..dont be talkin behind her bac, u could be makin it worst

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This girl keeps being mean to me over msn IM (the reason is too long a story to explain) she wont leave me alone. I keep telling her to leave me alone and that I don't want to fight but she wont leave it. What shall I do? We go back to school soon and I'm worried of what she may do to me.

hey, well try standin up to her, dont be scared, show her that ur more than that, if u try u should be fine babe..

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