Me and my friend are fighting a lot lately, and it's because of a guy or that she's depressed or whatever, anyway i think that its kinda making us less close. You know how fighting makes us closer, well i think it's the total opposite. this might not be true, but i think it is. Also, i'm sick and tierd of her complaining about being depressed and sad and "deep down i'm not the person who you really think i am" it gets soo ANNOYING!! i'm starting to feel i don't know my best friend any more. One more thing,i hate how everyone says their life is HORRIBLE && it sucks and they say that they are depressed and crap like that, BUT THEY ARE NOT! it bugs me. umm, thanks for the help. i think i really need it. =)
it seems to me you guys are real close..which is good i wish i had something like that. when your in a fight it is hard to believe that fights are good because its showing you have something in this friendship, its showing you two are so close you'll go through stupid fights like this. Guys should never split you guys apart but sometimes you just have to ignore it. if your friend is saying she is sad and stuff she jsut wnats you to notice her. it's always normal to do that. as you grow up and meet new people your friends will change. change can be good and bad but you have to face the bad and live the good. Its so hard sometimes but you ahve to remeber at least you ahve a frined like this. when people get upset they can say stuff you they dont mean. its not alwasy a NOT good idea to tell your friend that. lol i hope i help but if you still need more advice im year keep me posted ;]
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ok, ive been friends with this girl gabi since 1st grade. were both in 8th grade now. were best friends but sometimes i feel left out because she always goes out with her other friends and never tells me. weve been getting in a lot of fights lately and the past few have been really bad. i want her to be my friend but im not sure if she still wants to be mine. as we get older our interests are differing more and more. so basically my question is: Should i break our friendship or give it another chance???i give 5s, just so ya know
I think the best way to solve any of this is to just get her to hang out with you one night and just talk, talk about how you feel and how much you really care about her. Talk it through and fill your emotions so she can no exactly how you feel. I know how hard it is to lose a really good friend like you make her sound. If the conversation goes bad, just give it time and do soemthing special. Get a box, Take a picture of yourself of with your arm around "a invisable shoulder" in the place she should be there. Get ANYTHING you can get or think of in that box that you two ever did together. Pictures, memories, and so much more. Give her the box. How do you think she will feel?
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