ok...well this old friend of mine has been talkin to me lately and keeps wantin to get together and hang out and stuff..and like personally i dont want to..i dont know how to say that i just dont want to..like im a lot different than i used to and wed have NOTHING to talk about.. plz help!
Kill the old friend with kindness. Politely tell "old friend" that you don't think it's such a good idea that you talk anymore because you don't think it's a good idea. If you don't tell the truth then you will have to continue the conversations.
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hey cam. last year i was a really really different person, and i had this one friend who was like my best friend. this year i made a lot of new friends that i really like to be around, and just sort of ditched my old friend. i do feel bad, but i mean i don't really like her anymore. she is loud and obnoxious just to get attention and i really hate how she cusses so much. i have been doin fine without her. but she still tries to be friends and i don't really want to be! how can i tell her that i don't wanna be friends anymore without being mean?
Well the only way to tell her by not being mean is to just let the situation die off!! I mean if you don't want to be friends then just don't hang out with her! If she asks you to do something then just be like"i'm no in the mood" Never lie to her but be nice!! Let me tell you one thing, be nice to everyone even if they aren't your friends because you want to be known as the nicest person!! Trust me!!
Cammi
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ok so i have this friend. last year in school we were really tight. like we had a lot of classes together and we were always hanging out. we even had after skool stuff together! but now things are different. i hardly talk to her n e more. she use to tell me EVERYTHING. i was always the first person she would come to. we were always open with eachother and we told eachother everything. we use to talk online almost everyday too. now we dont really talk. she hardly says n e thing to me when i try to talk to her online. on her profile she use to have me as one of her friends and she use to always say things like "i luv you so much" and "ill luv you forever" and "ur the best" u know, like normal friend stuff. now im no where in her profile. i even just found out that she had this awesum party and invited all our friends except me. this school year that just ended she started hangin out with other people and just kinda leaving me. i no everybody makes new friends and im ok with that. i made alot of new friends too. but i didnt want to lose her in the process. i dont no wut to do about it. i really luv her and she is or at least was like my best friend. wut should i do? i really need your help
Let me ask you one question. Have you invited her to do stuff with you when this started happening? I had a friend that started to drift away from me and she was hanging out with who she thought were really cool people but were just freaks! I asked her to come over and we hadn't done anything just me and her together in a long time!! We had so much fun but she went back to being what nobody wanted her to be! Finally I invited her to do something again but this time I talked to her about it!! Do this and you can even say these exact words,"Name of Person, I'm really worried that we are drifting away from each other and I'm really worried about it! Please just remember that whatever you choose to do I am always there for you and you know you can come to me for help! I love you and I want you and me to become closer again." Just remember that when you are telling her this to be calm and rational!! I am pretty sure that this will help but keep on trying to pull your friend in back towards your way!! Just remember not to be to aggresive though cauz they prbably won't like that!!
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I have a friend that constantly calls me just whenever she gets bored. It might even be in the middle of the night. Sometimes I just don't answer the phone sometimes I just say i have to go now. What should i tell her without being to harsh?
Well, this friend sounds quite intersting!! I bet this friend just needs the attention of others becauz she may not get the attention she needs at home!! Talk to her about it and say that you can't talk all the time to her on the phone but you can talk online!! If she calls again in the middle of the night then just answer the phone and when it's her just say,"I really need to get some sleep can I call you back another day!" If none of this advice works then all I could think of to say is get caller-ID for your room so you know when she is calling so if your in the mood to talk to her you can but if you need your space then just tell your mom you do not feel like talking right the and there!! Or even tell her the next time she calls that you are busy and if she can call back another time!! Thanx for readin! Take this advice and use it to your advantages!!
Love,Cammi
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i have a friend who is very self centered... its always "her her her"... she wants everyone to herself and it is SOOOO annoying...
she thinks im like her best friend... but im not!!
what do i do?
Well I used to have a friend like that but then she realized by the way I was acting around her was not the same cause she was not the same person I knew when I met her! My advice to you is just to ignore her and if she starts talking about herself then be like,"Can we talk about me for a change because I am always there for you but I need you now and this is bot the time to worry about you!" If she was a true friend she would understand that you are worried and if she does not agree with you then you need to find someone else .
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