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hey. im ashley and im 13 years old [going into 8th] i havent been through everything but i can help you with a lot!

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Hi I have this friend who went out with my ex a week after we mutully broke up. She's nice and all but I don't like how she would go out with him after I did! SHould I forgive her or not?

okay well if you are jealous of your friend than it means that your not fully over you ex so its not her fault at all.. i mean you should be happy that your friend found someone...its not a forgive or not thing its all about you! you are just jealous of your friend and its not her fault at all so dont drag her into it... & if you still like your ex than you shouldnt have broken up with him.. im sorry to sound mean but i am just trying to tell you the truth. -ashley

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so i have a low confindence level.its like am afraid of popular kids in my school and i kind of want to be one .but i dont think i belong with tem .i like to watch them and know wats going on in their lives.what is wrong here.

okay first of all who cares about the "popular kids" just because they are popular doesnt mean that they are really happy and everything... i mean it might seem it to you but most of the time they arent.... why should you have a low confidence level if you are "popular" i mean so what.. just because a lot of people know who they are doesnt mean that you should be scared of them..i mean try and find friends who like the same things as you and that will make you happy i mean the popular kids are usually just sluts that everyone knowes and you dont want to be like that..the main idea is dont try to be something you aren't and just accept yourself and your friends cause im sure your a great friend

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I feel like all my friends are growing up so much faster than me.. period wise and crap. People tell me I'm lucky I don't have it.. but the doctor says I won't get it til I'm 14 or 15! Please don't give me the advice 'everyones different' cus im sick of it. grrrr

okay well im the same way as you.. truthfully i sometimes feel like everyone is so much older & everyone has bigger boobs & all that crap but i have just realized that not getting your period & crap is a lot easier than having it. i mean its really not something you want. & maybe it can get annoying to be like flat or whatever but to make myself feel "older" i have tried just wearing make up & i have also tried to act older with like responsiblilities with my family.... to tell you the truth i am not at all excited about getting me period its not something i am looking forward to and its not something you should be looking foward to either.. i mean you dont want that kind of responsiblility and if it makes you feel better ask one of your closer friends with their period if its a pain cause im sure they will tell you they would rather NOT have it!! -ashley

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