Member Since: August 23, 2005 Answers: 2 Last Update: August 26, 2005 Visitors: 752
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I have a problem with my boyfriend touching me 'down there.' We have been going out for 3 years now, we have had sex and all and I am still afraid to let him touch me down there or even see me down there. But I have a very good reason, I was molested at the age 5-6 years old, I have told my boyfriend this because he has asked me numerous times if that was the reason so I finally gave in and told him the truth. Now he knows, but he still tries to touch me there even though I have told him it makes me uncomfortable and I am not ready for that yet. I have always been shy about it, when he tries to touch me there it turns me off and it brings back memories of being molested. My question is how can I overcome this? And why does my boyfriend keep trying to go down there even when he knows, and when he does I push his hand away and he sort of seems mad and doesn't get it but sometimes he acts like he does get it, so I am not sure why he keeps doing this? (link)
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well .. i was molested too. so i do kind - of know how you feel .. BUTTTTT - i like it when my ex boyfriend touched me there ! it was GREAT !* it gave me so much pleasure . but now , i often have to use a " vibrator " because no one will go out with me because i have genitle herpes
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I really, really like this guy.Earlier this year, I think he sort of liked me because he was kind of flirting, but at the time, I was so involved with my own issues and I was going through a "Goth" phase that I didn't notice. And I think he doesn't like me anymore, I heard he has this new girlfriend (let's name her "Chloe") and I hate her to death. I now wish I gave him that chance earlier this year. What can I do? I'm thirteen and I know this kind of problem seems minor compared to someone who's like 18, but this is an advice site, so I thought maybe someone here could help me??? (link)
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Well , you say he's 18 and your 13 right ..
qive up on him if hes that old .. i might
have read the question wrong though .. if
Chloe and that boy are around ur age im
talking 13,14or 15 then try this :
Flirt with him and let her see .. and make
sure u get him to flirt back .. if he does
and she catches him she`ll be mad .. i like
this kid who had a girlfriend .. and they had
problems .. and now he's all mine because i did
that .. and if this boy is 18 thats to old for me
all 18 year old boys want is sex ! soo iif you really want him .. give him he's needs (orally)
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