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heyY! mY namE isZ karyN! i'M 14/F/ohiO! y0o gotT questionS..I gotT answerS! asK awaY! i'lL B shurE tO getT tO yeR questionS righT awaY!! x0Lallyp0p

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**~you no how i was takin about my friends ditching me tho but like there my best friends and like there really only the friends i have i dontno what to do theres no one else to really hang out with them~**

well maybe you should give them another chance! If it doesn't work out or they ditch you again then find new friends! Trust me they're are a lot of other poeple you can hang out with! Or just be friends with all different people. You don't have to isolate yourself to one group. Be like me, I don't hang out in one group but I hang out with all different people. Every weekend I'm hangin with someone new! This way you're never stuck with only a couple of friends! Go0d Luck! x0Lallyp0p

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**karyn what would you do if you got ditch on holloween or like everytime you wanna do somethin with your friends like this one time i was suppost to do somethin with my friends and they never came and got me. . . . should i be friends with them. . . . but now there like all being my friends now and all like hanging out with me i dunno what to do. . . . and this kid likes me and i like him but i wanna get to no him more what should i do?!**

i had one friend that was like that..she's still my friend now but we rarely talk..i would find new friends..you don't need friends who are going to ditch you..just talk to them but dont hang out with them! Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p

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Karyn hey i need help i have a alot of guy friends im close around them like not uncomferble but like sometimes when the guys r with me and some other girls i feel like im some fucking ugly ass i feel so bad about my self like noone would want me to be there i have no idea what i should do please help me!!

why do you feel so ugly when your with girls and guys? thats what I dont get! And you shouldn't feel uncomfortable when your with people! Your all equal! Just get involved with them! Make them your really good friends! This way you never feel uncomfortable or left out! If you become really good friends with them then you may never feel left out again! Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p

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alright well i'm sure you will know who this is but i don't want you to say anything! okay so i have this best friend and i dunno i think i might really like him! i mean we are the bestest of friends, but it is like really wierd when he has a gf! i mean i don't think i'm jealous but i dunno, what should i do? cause i don't really want to think of him that way and i'm sure he doesn't think of me in that way but i think i do like him alot! so what do i do?

to b honest i hav no clue who this is..lol but if i were you..i would try and step back..he's your best friend..when best friends go owt..they usually ruin their friendship after they break up..i noe what yer going through last year i liked my best friend..but nowoone ever knew!! cuz i didnt want him to find owt..cuz we had such a great friendship..hope I helped!! x0Lallyp0p

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karyn.. im stuck again.. i still well kinda like you know who.. but now theres someone else i kinda like.. but i told him i liked him after he told me he really liked me.. he just broke up with his girlfriend though.. but like ive hung out with him like 5874353709 times.. and now i don't know what to do i heard hes gonna ask me out in like 2 weeks.. but i like him.. but the problem is.. i still like that other person.. and my best friend like the person who is going to ask me out in 2 weeks! if i go out with her she'll be devastated.. she already is mad at me because he likes me.. what should i do?

well ferst of all..she should not b mad at you because this "guy in 2 weeks"isz sposta ask you owt..thats rilly a dum reezun 2 b mad at you..ok second..just get over "you know hu" bcuz he seems like a jerk that wants to take advantage of you.. ((as what you had earlier told me)) he also seems like a player..ok so this guy thats sposta ask y0o out in 2 weeks..i love that kid! he so awsum! lol but you just need to figure owt what is more important your BEST friend or this guy..guys will come and go..but friends will stay forever..if treaten fairly!! so many friendships are spliten upp because of guys..i think you should definitely wait until your friends stops liking him..it hurts you i noe..but i believe a friend is more important! I love y0o!!!! x0Lallyp0p

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Ok..

i hav dis problum... deres dis one gurl who was my complete n total best frend n wen we r wid r frendz we hav so muhc fun togetha... but i neva get to see her anymo. we try 2 get togetha but it just neva happenz... wut do i do to make her realize how much she realli meanz ta me?

**MiSsIn Mah FrEnd**

awww..y0o sound s0o0o sweet! I would write a note to her or call her and say..i want to hang out with you more, but it seems like everytime we try to hang out something gets in the way..you are such a great friend and i dont want to lose what i had with you! trust me it'll werk! Let me noe!! x0Lallyp0p x3

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i got this friend and i've been lying to them for a long tym..and now they've caught me lying (and a really big one) that is..and now they made a vow to nvr talk to me again... what should i do?? i've tried apologizing!!

your going to need to do a lot more than apologizing..you need to talk to them one on one about the situation..mayb they will give you a chance..hopefully you have a good reason for lying..x0Lallyp0p

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ok i have this friend lets call her cassy..shes like my bestfriend now..but when i met her i hated her cuz she always trien to steal my bestfriend at the time..and now that i hanged with her alot i think shes pretty cool..and we do alot together..well the other girl my old bestfriend (Hannah) always seems like to compete against me to get to her..and when ever me n cassy hang out she gets like jelous..i really just dont kno wut to do ne more..i mean i feel bad for cassy..wut do u guys and girls think i should do? thanks so much!

ever heard of the three muskateers? course you have! everyone has! Make room for one more! Noone said you needed to have only one best friend! Let yer new best friend and old best friend get accquainted to each other! Hope I helped! Have a g0od one! x0Lallyp0p

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i have a friend lauren and we got in a fight the other day and we made up that night. we discussed our issues and stuff but my main one was that i dont trust her and her i. and we said we would work on that but i cant shake the feeling that she is hiding something from me and that she secretly doesnt want to trust me or just cant should i confront her on this or should i just lay low and wait for time to pass?

talk to her definitely..you may make it worse by not tellin her how you really feel..dont b fake and trust her if you really do not..explain to her that you feel she is hiding something..hope i helped! x0Lallyp0p

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I have this big problem with friends. I can make them easily but I just can't stick with them. I don't even know if my current friends consider me their friends.

I thought in junior high I'd start over and make new friends.Well, it turns out I made a lot of friends. I don't know if they still think of me as their friends anymore though. I hang out with them and talk to them a lot the first few weeks. Then, after awhile they start talking about people from their old schools. I never know what to say so I just say a few words. After awhile, I stop saying stuff to them and just stop hanging out with them. Then I start hanging out with them again. They don't talk to me anymore. It's like I'm just a tag-a-long. There's this thing called lunch club. All the people with D's or F's go there at lunchtime Wednesday through Friday. This makes it so I can't hang out with any of my friends. Now I sort of wish I were in lunch club. Err. I had to have a change of schedule. Well, I had made some friends in those classes. Now I'm in classes where I hate everyone and they hate me too so I just act mean to them. I just started to hang out in the library at lunch so that nobody could hang out with me. It's not like anyone cares about me anyways. It sucks. That's why I hate school now.

Also, I had a problem like this in elementary when the kids started ignoring me. My old friends from elementary go to a different school and I haven't talked to them in a long time. I don't know if I should start talking to them or what. They'll probably be in my school in high school though....

Could someone help me?

making frenz is easy..keeping them is a whole nother story..it sounds like you are a pretty likable person..you make friends right away..so i don't think you are doing anything wrong.be yourself with people. people will like you for YOU, not what you are NOT! talk to your principal on this lunch thing.tell him/her that you are having problems with people at lunch and maybe he/she will work with you and put you with your currents friends.hope i helped! x0LAllyp0p

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