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Ok, i have this friend, lets call her Jane. Jane used to be really friendly last year, and we were REALLY good friends. Now, we're still friends, but shes not very friendly anymore, she lies all the time, she steals away the guys i like, and shes just not the same Jane she used to be. What do i do? Do i tell her?
-Concerned Chick
DEFINTELY. The most important thing in a friendship is communication. Who knows, your friend might not realize that she's been bugging you lately. In fact, you might even be bothering her. So I say you definitely talk to her. Just call her or talk to her at school one day and tell her that she's been acting different lately, and it's bugging you. Whatever you do, try not to yell or point out all her faults. Stay calm and hopefully she will too. And if she gets mad, look at it from her point of view.
After working things out, be sure to hang out more and have a special day just for you two, like old times. And if she can't accept the fact that she's changed a little and won't try to make your friendship better, then she wasn't a very good friend in the first place. Hope all goes well! Post me back.