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help im trying to plan a rele awesome party for my 14th birthday!!
there is going to be like around 15 people there, and i need fun games, activites whatever that we can do.
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Uh!
and u didnt invite me??????? Waaaaah! JK.
Lia
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OK, so there's this girl at school who's not that popular, but this year we've been put in some of the same classes and we got talking. She's quite nice, but embarrassing to be around because she's so loud and shouty! I'm also worried because when I'm hanging round with my friends she always comes over from her own friends to speak to us, and my other friends start laughing at her. Though I feel sorry for her, I wish she'd stop being so geeky and then maybe she could stop embarrassing me in front of my friends. She's also ditching her other friends to spend time with us, so I'm worried she'll end up with no friends at all. HELP! (link)
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well, if you like her you wont care about whether she is geeky or not, and whether if it will make you look cool, or what not. And you cant change her, she is who she is, and you obviosly saw her for who she was and so you shouldnt try to change people it only makes things worse
LIA AND SAMANTHA
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I have this friend and she is moving to Kentucky and I do not know what to do.She is like my best friend and I dont want her to go because I will miss her too much and she is soo happy about going but she is so worried about her boyfriend.I mean she is so ...I dont have a boyfriend and was thinking of taking him when she moves.I personlly think that I am acting weird for one.Is this normal?why do want to take her boyfriend away from her at the end of the year?
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if u want to keep your friendship going do not do that. and even if u want to give him time before u try to get him. you can write your friend letters and email. etc, but i f u try to steal her guy just think of all the bad things that could happen
Hope this helped
LIA AND SAMANTHA
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But he wont even talk to me, so how can i sit with him? I mean, we had a lot of fun and now he suddenly wont talk to me or want to have anything to do with me. (link)
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ok well then the next best thing to do is mabye try and call him or write him a note tellin him how u feel.
Hope this helped
LIA AND SAMANTHA
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My best guy friend was over my house and we started kissing and had the best time ever and now he wont tlak to me. What should i do? (link)
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ummm..... i already helped another person like this. well if he is not talkin to u chances r that he is probobly scared of what your friendship will be like now.
just sit down and talk to him he will listen. and will understand.
hope this helped
LIA AND SAMANTHA
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I have just fallen for one of my best guy friends. The other day we were kissing and now he wont talk to me.... what should I do? (link)
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one of your best huy friends huh?
well..........
the reason why he isnt talking to u is most likely becasue he is afraid of what might happen now or what u r going to say. Just talk to him and let him no how u feel about him, im sure he will listen, and even if he dosnt reply, he will think about it.
Hope that helped
LIA AND SAMANTHA
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some people say flirt or ask him out but its more than that im afraid of rejection and i cant get over it what if my friends or his make fun of me?
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just dont even think about your friends right now. all u need to worry about is him, just thinking about what your friends will say, will just get in the way through your whole life. just do what your heart tells u to do and not what your friends think.
hope that helped
LIA AND SAMANTHA
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I don't have very many friends, and i am very shy. sometimes i feel depressed. do you ever feel like that? my town where i live is very small, so there's not many places to go. where do you live? any suggestions?
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its perfectly fine to be quiet and shy.
so dont feel depressed
just try to make new friends this might sound immposible but its quite easy.
Just be yourself when u talk to people and its ok to be loud everyonce and a while.
oh and i live in sandiego CA
and everyone goes through these problems once in there lifetime.hope that helped
LIA AND SAMANTHA
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OK, I have this crush and I am too shy to ask him if he likes me, and that is the only way!!!! i really have a crush on him. (link)
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well... GUYS heheheheh
and thats not the only way. Have one of your good friends talk to him, and i mean a good friend and not a guy prferbly a girl cause guys will spread it..... but anyway do you think that this guy likes you back?
Why dont you get a friend and have her say "hey you know that girl(whatever ur name is) do u like her more than a friend"?
and have your friend tell you what he said and then if he likes u go from there. let me know where u get with him
LIA AND SAMANTHA
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Oh wow! I know so totally how you feel! It IS hard. You're putting yourself at the risk of having your heartbroken and that's never fun. But then again if you don't tell him, aren't you gonna be like, "What if_____?" or "Why didn't I ____?" No, but Sammy is right. If YOU can't find out, try having a friend find out. Maybe not a girl, because he could get the wrong vibes, but if you have a really close guy friend that you can trust not to gossip, that might be safer. Guys generally feel more comfortable that way.
LIA AND SAMANTHA
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OK, I think my friend is mad at me for no exact reason, I mean I wanted both of my friends to be friends, and they did, I mean thats great and all, but one of them, and I am not pointing fingers, but is hateing me for saying " Can you also be friends with me anymore?" PLZ SOLE THIS 4 ME (link)
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ok....well
i think i know what u r trying to say
this kind of thing happens all the time
if one of your friends dosnt want to be friends with another one of your close friends, then there is nothin u can do to make them friends.
Lets see here
for example if u were to have a party or something and u were to invite both of those friends over. And if your friends get mad at u fot inviting the other friend over. then just tell them that "sure i might have friends that u dont like but theres nothin i can do to change that and if u cant accept me for me and the friends i have. then well ur not a real friend"
hope that helped
LIA AND SAMANTHA
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